If someone broke up with you because of something you accused their friend of doing.Then you tried to make amends a week later and they just ignored you. Should I try again if I really love him or would that make me seem crazy or desperate? Should I just leave him alone or go with my heart and try again? its been a week since I tried to make amends the first time.
2006-06-26 16:59:40 · 25 answers · asked by miranda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could try to make amends one more time. There is no shame in trying to repair your relationship. If you love someone then you should try to make things work. Its better then regretting not having tried.
If he rejects you after making amends again I would leave him be and see if he will be mature enough to forgive you for your wrongs. Everyone makes mistakes.
Whatever happens just remember its meant to be, and sooner or later you will find someone great again :)
2006-06-26 17:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Midnghtangls 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Was there a reason you accused? Be careful to accuse or give your opinion about a guys friend,male or female,whether you actually know them or not. The guy or girl could and will most likely defend them or side with them against you. It shows you how important you are in their life, especially if he gets mad and walks away instead of listening why you feel this way or said it Sometimes it's just better to keep your thought or opinion to yourself. Do what you think is best for you.
2006-06-27 00:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weel, definatly it depends how much you lve him and what did you do, if you belive he worth do it by your heart.
after all you are being humiliated in front of the one you love or you have loved for a time, it shouldn't be reallly an isssue.
any way be careful that this does not become the routine of yor life.it really depends how understanding the other person is
you see basically logical people when they are pestered seek apology for that particular thing as others try evry method to make their points . If it is the case I personally suggest that you try to find s1 else goo luck:)
2006-06-27 00:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by yossarian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first thing is why is he getting mad at you for something between you and his friend. You should ask yourself if he is worth it; if he is you should try one more time, but if not don't. You tried to make amends; if the guy really does care for you, he'll pull his head out of his a** and realize it is between you and the friend not you and him
2006-06-27 00:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by bigbadjohnsnow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him!
If he is mad about something like that ,, then think how mad he will get when you get into a more important issue or argument. It sounds to me like he is more into his friends than you. That is you sign to get out and be free from his selfishness. I mean, So what if you accused his friend of something--what is the big deal? That is so pathetic of him to stay mad at you for that. he is taking up for his friend and not you. I can understand if he tried to explain that you were mistaken about his friend or whatever, but he took it way to far! He needs to get into the real world of life. Wow,, I wonder if he really thinks that he is that perfect himself.
Blow him off--ignore him!! And let him know that you think he is childish and that he should not have made such a big deal about this mistake! Gosh,, he makes it sound like you crushed his world--what an idiot. Plus it may just be a sick excuse to get out of the relationship--if he already wanted out. Who knows..
2006-06-27 00:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't EVER chase after a man. It's demeaning to you and they just think less of you. Plus it gives them all the power. If this guy dumped you for something so petty-I say good riddance to him. It's his loss. Focus on being the best you can be and before long someone new and better will come along. Take care.
2006-06-27 00:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by ShellRe' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already tried to apologize, then he's just being a jerk. Ignore him for a while. As hot as you are, he'll be crawling back in no time. And if he doesn't, a pretty girl like you can get another guy.
2006-06-27 00:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by david s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tried - now it's just time to wait and see if they want to try. You can't force someone to make amends, and by constantly pestering them it would only make it worse. Just stay friendly and if they want to talk they will.
2006-06-27 00:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by BabyFirefly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just leave it alone. If he did not want your apology the first time, I would not attempt it again. I think it would make you look desperate.
2006-06-27 00:04:58 · answer #9 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you did. Give him some time to cool off.. You can try again a bit later if you really mean it.
2006-06-27 00:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋