and not necessarily hard core porn. I guess there may be women that are like this too. I know there is a large scale from minimal drive to NYMPHO. How does it make you feel if you are the spouse or significant other to someone that is like this? How do you feel if you catch them looking at other women (or men) that are provocatively dressed or naked?
2006-06-26 16:50:48 · 20 answers · asked by pottersclay70 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
By the way this isn't a personal question. Just an observation of men I know.
2006-06-26 16:55:38 · update #1
It's just the nature of the beast (men that is). Men get horny at the drop of a hat. I had this discussion with my husband yesterday. It baffles me what is going on in a mans mind sometimes. It doesn't matter to them what "you" are doing, if they are horny that's all they can think about. It drives me crazy, I'll be washing dishes, folding clothes (things that MUST be done), (and things I take seriously) and he walks by and has to pinch me or grab my butt or something. I asked him if there was something provocative about doing housework, and he said "no". He never really could explain why men do these things, except basically that's what men think about MOST of the time. It doesn't have to be anything specific. they are just HORNDOGS!
It really doesn't bother me if he is looking at someone else. I am secure in my marriage of 16 years. He can "LOOK" all he wants.
2006-06-26 17:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by chulita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I truly feel that the porn and movie industry have been increasing the amount of airtime on TV and movies it is unreal how much they show on regular channels . i think it is natural if you are single but.... if the guy or girl is in a relationship why be a porn king or queen it is disrespectful unless it is a mutual thing . personally i get tired of seeing naked women on TV every few seconds ...
2006-06-27 00:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by ThE OnE aNd OnLy ..PEPSIGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just need the quickness of porn as opposed to actual sex. It's much easier and hassle-free. Trust me, him looking at girls and pornography does not mean he doesn't think you're completely beautiful and sexy. I bet that even the most gorgeous woman in the world has a boyfriend who looks at porn just like every other man.
2006-06-27 00:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by Emmet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a general rule, men are more sexually stimulated with their eyes.....women are usually more into touch and smell.......I think most porn is aimed at men, where as books and self-help videos are aimed at women....as a general rule.....
I also believe that it depends on how secure the relationship is....if the only thing that is wondering is his/her eyes and not other body parts, it may be acceptable to over look it (as long as they aren't making rude comments)......but if there is an issue of infidelity.....that's a whole different subject.......
if looking at another person (sometimes) helps to get my partner turned on.....that might be ok.......as long as they come home to me and are faithful.....that might be great for some, but not for all.....
maybe talking it out will help??
2006-06-27 00:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by momlee2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not like happening to me currently but it just makes me not want to be in a relationship. It makes me not believe in love. And i'm only sixteen. Everything just sucks. My dad cheated on my mom and now they're divorced and it seems like that happened to a lot of people I know. And It's basically all you hear. It's disgusting and its disapointing. I want to find true love. I want to grow up and get married and for my husband to actually care about me and be a man. But the future is scary and forboding. I'm sorry if this is happening to you.
2006-06-26 23:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by kellyduhhh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature. Men to tend to be more visual, and whereas women are more into emotions and feelings. If my boyfriend is looking at magazines and movies that are sexual in nature it doesn't bother me. But if he was checking out some skantily-clad girl walking by it would, because it's more real and in your face then. Talk to them about it, and let them know what bothers you and what doesn't. They should respect you.
2006-06-26 23:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by BabyFirefly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they ARE friggin horn dogs! So many internet advertisements are for pornography sites, the funny video pages have pornography on them, ... It is everywhere and more readily available today because of technology. There are women that are tempted by it as well as the men, but in my experiences I think the men are more affected.
2006-06-27 00:09:03 · answer #7 · answered by boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how I see it, If my man watches porn, it's all good. He gets turned on? So waht it's nature..It's not like he can jump on tv and bang theese laduies...I dont even care if he looks at other girls on the street...as long as he eats at home....most the time i look with him
2006-06-27 00:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by Lilmisssassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys would watch porn less if their girlfriends or wives tried excercising to look healthy at least, cause healthy = sexy. Being humans driven by testosterone, we have sexual appetites, if you girls can't feed us, we'll feed ourselves. So, just suck it up and live with it.
2006-06-27 00:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by Horny Goat Weed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TESTOSTERONE..........
I AM CONVINCED, THAT MALE HORMONE, THAT SOME HAVE TOO MUCH, OR SOME NOT ENOUGH.
I BELIEVE THAT MEN, PLAYBOYS, SEX ADDICTS IS A RESULT OF THE TESTOSTERONE, AND THEY DO NOT MEAN TO BE , BUT ARE DRIVEN AND IT MUST BE POWERFUL, LOOK AROUND, READ THE NEWS, MEN ARE NOT BAD, ALWAYS, WHEN THEY ACT SEXUALLY OVER FOCUSED, IT HAS GOT TO BE THE HORMONE..
2006-06-27 00:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋