My sister has a freind that just comes over late at night I am in my jamas all comfortable and enjoying watching tv. She tells me to get dress and act like its perfectly alright for them to come over after midnight. How do I give them a hint they are no wanted in this time of night, I tried turning off all lights make it almost black dark in the whole house it doesn't seem to work...should I set a trap or what? Or should I just bluntly tell him to go home, and come back at a decent hour...!
2006-06-26 16:50:18 · 17 answers · asked by Marissa H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
just tell them.. obviously, your friend can't take the hint..sometimes, you need to be vocal on things that bothers you
2006-06-26 16:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys share an aptartment you can't really tell her friends to get out you better just go to your room and maybe they'll get the hint. But if it's your place, that's a totally different situation. Darn right you tell them to come back at a decent hour just cuz they are out you obviously aren't and would've invited them over if you wanted them there that late. Might piss your sister off but hey it's your house
2006-06-26 16:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kookie M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are your sisters guest, then you should tell her that it makes you uncomfortable for them to just show up that late at night. Then ask her if she could speak with them. If she can't take care of it, then you could just tell them that after a certain time, you want to relax and destress from the day, and you really can't do that with them showing up all times of night. If that doesn't work, then set the trap
2006-06-26 16:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by tbird00719 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you own the premises politely tell the person they are not to just drop in whenever the mood hits them. If they can't call first, they are not welcome, especially at that time of night. If you are not the property owner then you should discuss this with your sister and have her imform her friends. Either way a phone call first is always the proper thing.
2006-07-03 07:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by fivestarmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him to hit the road or something. Try locking all the doors and windows so he has no way to get in. If he doesn't get the hint warn that you're going to call the cops next time for breaking and entering. If he does it again, call the cops.
2006-06-26 16:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by Ran Aleman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister how you feel. She obviously is extremely hungry for attention and has a low self esteem. If she wants to hang out, she can go out. Tell her also to stop being so selfish. The nightime is for sleeping and not for visiting. Your sisi needs to understand that she doesn't live alone and if it's not okay for you, then it's not okay for the house, period! Perhaps you should consider moving out or kicking her out. Your sister sound like a bug who attracts other bugs. Tell her to buzz off!!!
Mr. M on considerate living.
2006-06-26 16:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd start with asking your sister to help in the matter. She should respect your wishes of the "home" which means a primary place of privacy and solitude from interaction. If that doesn't work you can be assured the honest and respectful approach is the best approach.
2006-06-26 16:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by AmericanSwede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-09 02:06:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First have a serious talk with your sister (on the level) and tell her that if she can't resolve it you are going to confront the friend. Come to a consensous, and figure out the best course of action.
2006-06-26 16:55:36 · answer #10 · answered by Marky-Mark! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does your sister welcome the guest? Are you and your sister roommates? Adults living on your own? I just wouldn't answer the door....but that's me. They aren't there to see me, I don't want to socialize with them....so on the porch they sit.
Now, if your sister is good with the visitors and you are adults living on your own......she has a right to have visitors when ever she wants unless the two of you have come to an agreement other wise. She needs to be the one to tell the guests they are not welcome after......what ever time the two of you decide.
2006-06-26 16:59:18 · answer #11 · answered by adnerb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋