2006-06-26 16:44:02 · 4 answers · asked by jim w 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gently, with compassion. Don't get defensive. Use facts and feelings beginning with the word "I" instead of "you." However, you change her (or her mind, her choice, her anything...) Life is all about choices...and then consequences. Sometimes it hurts to see someone we love make bad choices. But part of true love is giving the other the "freedom to fail" so that they may learn what is best for them. Patience, friend. Let your love give her the freedom for now---if and when she comes back to you, it will be even more precious since she will realize it herself.
2006-06-26 16:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by answerb4midnight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't!! If she is with the wrong guy, she has to find that out herself, and you telling her will only drive her away from you as that is not what she wants to hear. Think man, if you were the right guy for her, she would be with you, not him. Time will tell, and barging in and making statements like that won't work, period. Move on and find someone else, and maybe, just maybe you two will end up together in the future, but now is not the time, trust me.
2006-06-26 16:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question, I dont think you can make anyone love you, I thibnk you just have to show her you care, just be her friend and if its meant to be its meant to be, I know its tough but eventually she will come around, or yu will find someone else. Oh and definitely tell her how you feel, it wont do any good to hide your feelings from her, and you will regret it if you never tell her, gl.
2006-06-26 16:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say it just like that, It sounds very romantic, Red Roses would be nice too. Take her to a special place. If she is already married just ignore my advice and leave her alone,she's already spoken for. Hope things go well....
2006-06-26 16:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋