ok, so basically this year a new guy came to my school, for once, the new kid was amzingly gorgeous. but that wasn't all, he also is nice to everyone and athletic and just... perfect. Soon everygirl in my school liked him and yet here i am just a friend on the side. I want to tell him i really like him and i always have, even before he became so poplular with girls but i feel like i just cant. Partly because he is so on/off flirty. one day he will completly ignore me and the next he will say to me that im such a gangsta and he has my back all the time(its a weird joke we have.. were in the same hood) Some people say they think he likes me because he talks about me alot saying im hott and others tell me he likes someone else. I want to forget about him, i really do but i just CANT, hes always on my mind, i miss him all the time . When i go to school or a party or something he is the first person i look for.. ever since i met him he has been.
2006-06-26 16:42:10 · 6 answers · asked by because7_8_9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, honesty is the best policy. We aren't in the fifties anymore and women can speak out! This is a new age. There is nothing wrong with you telling him, hey look...I like you. If you don't, you will regret it because he COULD like you. You'll never know if you don't take a chance. That's what life is all about...not about sitting on the sidelines. He could be "the one."
2006-06-26 16:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by Katie N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-07-01 01:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, this is the 21st century, it's ok for you to ask him out! Be assertive and you will find out if he's interested and if he's not then you will forget about him fast and move on.
2006-06-26 23:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by guy_in_n_metro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel , Maybee a letter would be nice , or a private talk
2006-06-27 00:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by peach_blossom5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just tell him how you feel and see what he thinks or ask him to hangout this weekend just the two of you in the mall, movies or something
2006-06-26 23:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by Destiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u like him a lot
2006-06-26 23:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋