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Question

I have been regularly going to buffalo wild wings to eat. There is a waiteress that I am attracted to. My question is how can I go about asking her out without being unprofessional? I haven't gotten a clue as to how to do it in this environment so to speak. Your input will be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

Answer 1

just talk to her to see if she would like to hang out sometime after she gets off of work - my brother did this and it worked for him - he went to a restaurant on a regular basis after one of his leagues and always got the same waitress - they got to know each other - and went out - they didn't end of dating but became good friends

GOOD LUCK

Answer 2

try to eat at a table she will be waitressing. Then when she comes to your table order nicely, each time she comes by be polite and say thank each time she does a great job. Befor you leave the last time she comes to your table to bring the tab you could say she has either a beautiful personalty and you would like to get to no know her and maybe you could take her on a date or just conversate on the phone sometimes. let her reply i have a boyfriend or my number 222-2222 or you give me your number now thats a sign she has a man but is willing to expore options. IF a man tells me i am beautiful in any type of way it always makes me smile or blush i guess you don't hear that line often

Answer 3

try to show her you are interested but dont do it while partying with 30 other guy friends there. just talk to her, mabye ask her how long she has worked there, what she does in her time off. if you are really shy try wrintin a short note, like I was wondreing if you would like to go out sometime, and leave it with your # with her tip. A guy did that once to me and I called him the next day. Best thing to do is be polite and respectful and she will appreciate the offer no matter what. :)

Answer 4

If you have a business card, a cute way of asking a person out is to put on the back of the business card "Good for one dinner for two, call me with time and place" Leave it with your tip at the end of the meal, the ball will be in her court

Answer 5

Well usually for it to happen its gotta work both ways........u shud have little unspeakable games that only use have like stareing at each otha then she looks away then use do it again.....when she waits on u treat her like shes the reason your there until eventually she starts noticing u....then u pounce it doesnt matter what u say she'll go out with u

Answer 6

There is only one thing you can do, is ask her for a date. If she is cute as you say, and being a waitress, I am sure she has heard them all.
So be nice, be sincere, tell her how much you like her, and would love to take her out. Nothing more, don't go all smart and cool, she's heard it all. Sincerity wins every time.

Answer 7

Just go for it...like someone else said ask her out for coffee. She might turn you down but fyi even if they don't like you, girls love it when they get asked out....it's flattering. She won't hate you for it. And if she does turn you down keep going back and having casual conversations and maybe she'll get to know you better and eventually say yes.

Answer 8

ask to be waited on by her, and let her know your name. then just tell her that you also think its awkward... and tell her your name and that you want to be friends, and do some stuff with her along with some of your other friends a few times, then once you know each other a little better, ask her on a real date alone.

Answer 9

Watch out for lame pick up lines. Try not to look like a stalker.

Answer 10

Ask her how her night is going and see what she says. Then ask her out or you could give her your number. You never know she may be checking you out also. Give it a try!!