2006-06-26 16:32:52 · 8 answers · asked by CUTEY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either you are feeling that you are not being loved enough by your bf or else it;s just that you want more and more of it!:)As they say in one of your playful and jovial moments together tell him first all the things that you like about him..hope it is more than 21 and if you are expecting the same favour in return he will have to be a real romantic person. Or else, he is going to come up with something sweet and nice that can either sweep you off your feet...or else he will just say a few which in turn will make you feel more insecure that he was not able to say so many. So instead of going for quizzing go for some old fashioned romance.Show him 21 ways why you love him so much and he is going to show you 200001 why he loves you. Good luck love birds!
2006-06-26 17:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by aleandan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you sound a bit insecure, and I think you may come across that way to him. Isn't enough that you two are together? Guys at 21 tend not to be too verbal about such things, and they kind of expect you to understand that they feel all those things by their actions. If he is not treating you like the most important person in your life, then asking him to tell you how much etc., might cause a negative response. Can't you tell these things by observing his behaviour? Does he do little things like open the door for you, and let you go first into a room? Does he get you flowers on occasion, or a small box of chocolates every so often, you know, the little things? If not, then maybe you are with the wrong guy, and asking him such things won't work.
2006-06-26 16:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel you need to ask him these questions? If you feel compelled to know the answers, start off by telling him one thing you like about him and he may in turn tell you one thing he likes about you. Every night before you go to sleep try telling each other one reason you why you love the other. Make sure he doesn't give the answer more than once in a week.
2006-06-26 16:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by psychgirldr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you need to do is this:
!) First make a list of what you love about him.
2) Then see if he does the same for you.
If he asked you to make up these questions, then I would be kind and give him a list of reasons why you love him and that will help him come up with things he loves about you.
You see, it is not about coming up with the questions..--that is not it--I mean How many could you ask--like do you love my smile, my personality, me, ...and so forth--those question things sound silly. --It is more important to just say what you love about a person than to think of a certain number of questions to give them.. Does that make any sense.????
2006-06-26 16:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so whats the problem you need more details. First ask him why he loves you, what is it about you that he loves, and why you out of all the women in the world, why he choose to love you. And then give him a big hug and kiss.
2006-06-26 16:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by BrownSuga26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need more details. all you need to do is ask him at the right moment. wait till you are laying down listening to music. say i love you and if he says i love you to then ask so why do you love me in a giggled voice that is fun but honest he should understand expetialy at that moment
2006-06-26 16:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by nck_luna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that, give the poor guy a break, that's strictly a girl thing.
2006-06-26 16:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's ur boyfriend u're suppose to be comfortable with him, just start talking to him, and you will get to the questions.
2006-06-26 16:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by queensephora_2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋