we been talk ever since. he told me he loved me awhile back and i said the same. but around the same time we start dating other people who live closer to us. he get married , but say he still love me. i dont know what i should do. help in anyway. i want to meet him and he feel the same.
2006-06-26 16:25:59 · 37 answers · asked by doll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he getting married i mean.
2006-06-26 16:28:33 · update #1
well he needs to call off the wedding first and foremost and then make a commitment to you. my experience so far has been that its great to get to know them online first but meeting is a must no matter what the distance if hes the one!
2006-06-26 16:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower776usa 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love and respect both yourself and this guy and things will fall into place as they should.
The fact that he married someone else is a big warning sign for you that this guy is not as mature as he could be. How would you see him if you were the person he were married to and he cheated on you?
He owes it to you, himself, and his wife to be honest. If he wants a divorse or an annullment, he should do it.
In the meantime, understand that this guy might not be ready for a relationship with anyone.
What do you want out of a relationship? Are they the same things he wants?
2006-06-26 16:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by chico fantastico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both loved eachother so much then you both should have met before getting into other relationships. This guy is now married - he made a committment and he is no longer single. Leave him alone - if he wasn't serious enough with you to meet you and see if it could work when you were both single, then don't even entertain the fact now that he is married.
2006-06-26 16:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if he truly loved you, he wouldn't have gotten married in the first place. You two should have met before you decided to start dating people who lived closer to you. It's a little too late, and if he doesn't realize that, you have to! He's married, and no longer available. Let it alone!!!
2006-06-26 16:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait he got married since he's known u or b 4?
If he''s married then u shouldn't have anymore to do with him, because he's cheating on his wife, but telling a woman on line he loves her,
think about this, is he worth it?
He talked with u for a yr, he says he loves u, he started dating others, then he gets married.
U think he told the others he loved them?, u think he married someone he met on line?
Move on sweetie, (he did) don't wait around for someone who's never gonna be with u
2006-06-26 16:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes married then u should back off. tell him that if he wants anything between the 2 of u then he needs 2 drop the other woman and get with u. but if u have no morals...go meet him and see what happens. just think about it b4 u do anything
2006-06-26 16:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by veedizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like your soulmate. I would use a online identity discovery website to locate him. Then go to his house, sit outside and watch him for a few days. Follow him to work. Call his house and hang-up from a pay phone over and over. Call him at work Call his fiancee's parents and tell them that you are a jilted lover. Give it enough time and effort and I'm sure you can grind is feelings into the dirt until his recipricates his love for you.
2006-06-26 16:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by jc20155 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the idea of marriage is lifetime committment or, if you want to be a bit more practical/cynical, at least a long-term committment
it makes no sense to me to get tangled up with someone who views it as something he jumps in and out of so casually ...
anyway, I heard he "loves" you not that he wanted to marry you or even date you ... so what is there to decide about here ? whether to sleep with him ??
there are plenty of guys to sleep with who aren't carrying around all this baggage ...
2006-06-26 16:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by LizTalks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find one who's not married. You need a dude all to yourself. Even if he were to leave his wife for you, he'd do the same to you at some point!
2006-06-26 16:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The internet is a dangerous place. You never know who you could be talking to.
I, in fact, could be a super intelliegent cat trained by scientists to type and have a human personality.
But you don't know for sure do you? Drop him. He could be dangerous and get you a situation that you don't want to be in.
2006-06-26 16:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by ChaiTea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋