no sexual feeling?

Question

if you have been molested in the past why would you have no sensitivity at ALL in the nerther regions and your ****. also, havent been able to orgasm...at all, cant even feel the man inside during sex...am i broken?

ive already had counceling...past that, already healed (and healing) just wanna know why happy flappy dosn't work..

the power oif the devil does not hold me..i hold the power when i have a mans genitallia under my foot:P

Answer 1

well you have to see a psychologist and a sexologist to come to terms if it is so because mentally you have been shocked and that shock is giving you problems

Answer 2

You are not broken but maybe bent. You need counseling very urgently. This will help you heal and what needs to heal is not your body. It is your feeling and your mind. The ability to tell someone what happened to you and forgive that person will help you heal so you can have a better relationship with a partner. You are guarding yourself so you can't be hurt again so it is easier to feel nothing. You don't say how old you are but it is never too late to get the help you need and I might add this, if you don't feel comfortable talking to a particular counselor don't be afraid to change until you find someone you can talk freely to. This is the only way to healing. A friend is a good start. Someone you can trust . Someone who won't tell other people if you ask them not to. Good Luck and know I am hoping the best for you. You did nothing wrong.

Answer 3

I think you still have issues with being molested. The "big O" is so connected to the mind, it has more to do with your mental state than physical. If you don't enjoy the foreplay you won't enjoy the rest. You have to be really into it, and be really turned on before the guy goes inside, or it won't feel good. Many women can't get orgasms from regular sex. But you can try self stimulation, get to know your body, what feels good and what works. That helps a lot. Good luck, and if the therapy you have tried hasn't helped you, you can try other therapists and other aproaches. This is you life, you need to do what you have to do for yourself. Whatever it takes.

Answer 4

Many women have less feeling than they would freely admit. There aren't as many nerve endings inside as you would think to achieve your orgasm. Not sure if you are, but you sound very young. Speak to your doctor about your physical feelings and definitely get into counseling for the molestation.

Answer 5

You have two thing to do, first sit down with your partner and talk about your experience and if his is serious about your relationship, ask him to give you the support necesary and go together to a therapist.

Answer 6

forgive that person in your heart and get on with your life the devil has a strong hold on you, and you don't need to have sex until your married any ways

Answer 7

Contact a therapist

Answer 8

if you have no feelings you must eat custrad apples in one month you will see a good change,you may also take the mangoes milk shake

Answer 9

i dont think your broken until your body parts are hanging out from you :)

seek help, its treatable. it'd be a shame for anybody who engages in love making and not getting a good feeling out of it. good luck!

Answer 10

FIRST OF ALL IT TOOK ME MANY OF YEARS
TO BE ABLE TO TALK ABOUT IT YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE ISSUE BRING IT OUT IN THE OPEN. I PROMISE
YOUR SEX LIFE WILL BE AMAZING
FORGIVE AND FORGET LET GOD HANDEL IT.