2006-06-26 16:21:09 · 9 answers · asked by Beckam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is coming from a man's perspective, so bear with me if my opinion sounds a little impersonal.
I think it's natural for you to be fickle or have second thoughts about getting married. Women are driven emotionally in their life, and the thought of marriage is probably making your brain jump out of your skull with emotions.
You can listen to all the advice in the world, but the most important person to talk with is your fiancee'. He should be your rock when you need it, and you should share your feelings with him. If you can't share this with him now, then you're going to have problems later when you are married.
Good luck to you!
2006-06-26 16:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by MojaveDan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably lol well just think about how you would feel if you lost him all of the sudden and new you would never get to see him smile at you or kiss you good bye or good night or hear the sound of his voice say "I LOVE YOU" or never feel his hand reach over and touch yours. do you have your answer yet? i hope this helps you get the answer you need and also think about what kind of father he would be and a grandfather. if he treats you good and is honest,loving,caring,considerate then go for it! best of luck to you both
2006-06-26 23:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by lnay69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it's time, you know and you're not having second thoughts. If you are, don't. Wait. You'll probably stand at the alter with someone who's better for you!
2006-06-26 23:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about how you are feeling and if the engagement should last a little longer so you can get to know eachother better.
2006-06-26 23:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mischelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're having second thoughts, cancel the wedding. Marriage is a long time....remember that!
2006-06-26 23:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I TOTALLY agree with the blonde! :) Get out!!! Seriously, marriage is long term...well, it is SUPPOSED to be....so you do not want to be tied down unless you are absolutely positive that it is what you want for the rest of your life. Good luck hon!!!!
2006-06-26 23:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by outlawsister1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO DOUBTS!
My husbands dad told him this before we got married - it is the BEST advice!
take it!
2006-06-26 23:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by kalinrae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, u really need to be emotionally mature to consider being bonded legally for someone for life.
2006-06-26 23:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by chio'z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your fiance how you feel and why you feel that way.
2006-06-26 23:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by Strawberry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋