I have this friend who dated this grl who was a "big" drinker and he would take her to nite clubs every other weekend and she would ask him to drink, but he was not fond of drinkin at all and due to this she dumped him!
2006-06-26 16:16:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had the same problem as you friend did.
Although I drink too, this girl couldn't go anywhere without involving alcohol. I would setup to go out on some extraordinary dates, such as snow skiing, weekend at Catalina Island, etc. She would eventually anchor herelf in front of a bar no matter what we did.
The worst thing was going to bed with her. If she didn't pass out, she would be a dead lay and usually forgot that we did it. It wasn't worth the effort to take her anywhere, let alone having sex with her.
If your friend's girl has an issue with your friend not drinking, then it's good that your friend isn't with her anymore. Don't play second fiddle to a bottle or a night club in a relationship.
Tell him to move on and don't turn back...
2006-06-26 17:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by MojaveDan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy who drinks. All of my male friends also drink. But, very few of our wifes and girlfriends drink and this doesn't bother anyone of us at all. I think it's because this is more "acceptable" socially.
I guess, if a woman drinks and her guy doesn't, that could cause some problems. At least, if he drank, that would provide her with some social reinforcement that it's ok.
Find a guy that drinks. It's not hard.
2006-06-26 23:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by kociubin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this can tend to be a problem as for my relationship goes, my bf does not drink a drop.That is good to a certain point. He can sometimes be a very boring person when everyone else is having fun. So to me he's a big stick in the mud when we are together with our friends. I haven't left him he is a very good provider for me so I guess I'll keep him around.
2006-06-26 23:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by mothers finest 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if he seems bothered by it, you know, tryn to make me stop or always grumbling when i do, then its gonna b hella annoying, and he may even get the boot, but in that case she shouldnt have done that...he wasnt doin nuttin to her...
2006-06-26 23:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_n_mellow23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it would SEEM like they weren't having as much fun as everyone else? But i wouldn't mind coz then i would have a designated driver everywhere i went :)
2006-06-26 23:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by Dasher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't make me stop drinking, i wouldn't stop seeing him. And I wouldn't make him start drinking. Plus, he could always be my DD and he'd always get to take advantage of me when I'm drunk. ;-)
Seems like a win-win situation to me.
2006-06-26 23:19:56 · answer #6 · answered by Sleeping2Dream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not be annoyed so long as they had no problems with me drinking :) to each their own i always say.
2006-06-26 23:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by n4il_p0lish2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sound like he dodged a bullet.
2006-06-26 23:19:28 · answer #8 · answered by mizflame98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-06-26 23:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by quinndarling2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋