Ok. There's this boy that dies for me to go out with him. Until i said that i would go out with him. And everysince he's not called me a single time, text messaged me, or barely even said hi to me. Even a couple of days ago i sent him a text message to him on his cell phone...and yet has he replied. What should i do? I want to break up with him but i want to be friends with him too at the same time. PLEASE HELP!
2006-06-26 16:09:12 · 11 answers · asked by Kelsey G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmm well thats the thing this is human nature when you want something and you get it the whole charm goes away all of a sudden but well i think you should talk to him about this
2006-06-26 16:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by ill tell u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that you respect him as a person and definately want him as a friend, but there is no spark between you two and you would like him to have that with someone someday. Explain that you guys can stay friends and help eachother find that happiness for the other.
2006-06-26 23:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by Mischelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him. Just like he is you. You aren't worth his time, so make sure that he isn't worth yours.
If he says anything about it, turn it around on him.
Say, "well you didn't return my calls or messages, which means we aren't together. It is so good that we can still be friends." And leave it at that. Once you say it, you have to run because you have someplace to be. Or have one of your friends stand close by when you talk to him and they will call your cell and off you go sweet princess.
He's not worthy!
2006-06-26 23:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by MissCan'tBeWrong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be your boyfriend's friend when he knows you've recently broken up with him and refused him. He is trying to prove to you that he loves you and cares about you, so tell him that you are feeling the relationship should come to an end, since you seem to be uncomfortable with it. He will probably understand, otherwise he isn't such a great guy.
2006-06-26 23:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by blingding 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE yOu All REAding this , ?" EVER since Then" what 's then?
you had sex with him? how can someone be yourboyfriend and never talk to you? that's not a problem, not an issue or anything like that. You' crating Drama for yourselg, let it go. It's called getting PLAYED. now you know!
2006-06-26 23:19:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try calling him.
Ask him why he hasn't returned any of you texts
and if he has a good reason then keep going out
with him but if he does it again then you should end it.
but if he didn't just because he didn't want to then you should tell him that you just want to be friends because this relationship just isn't working out and we were better being friends.
2006-06-26 23:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that anything happened in the first place...are you sure that he knows that you two are going out at this point? if you dont really like him taht much, and even if you do, just leave him alone...if he doesnt want to be with you than thats his problem, NOT YOUR PROBLEM!
2006-06-26 23:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by hmmmm..... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming that by "go out" you mean that you are "together"?
well, not to worry too much.... just make yourself distant from him a bit...if you just want to be his friend, well...the answer is
obvious......
get a guy that wants to talk/ hang with you!!!!!!! THE END!
2006-06-26 23:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by kalinrae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that this isn't the kind of relationship that you want and that you would rather be friends with him.
2006-06-26 23:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up w/ him? you haven't started yet-nothing to break-maybe he found someone else or just liked the chase-move on-if he's interested, he'll call you
2006-06-26 23:14:09 · answer #10 · answered by The Riddler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋