2006-06-26 15:57:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A. Confidence: Before you EVER go out and talk to a woman, before you even leave your house, you have to be confident. I cannot emphasize this enough. You do not have to be Tucker Max, but you must have some minimal level of self-assuredness and self-awareness. If you are weak or unsure, the woman will see it almost immediately and will almost always be put off by it. Nothing smells worse to a woman than desperation.
How can you be confident? That's like asking how you can be creative. There is no definitive answer. Confidence comes from within, comes from an understanding and acceptance of who you are and a belief in yourself and your abilities. If you have nothing good about yourself to believe in, then find something or do something that can give you that belief. Seriously--develop a skill or talent that you are proud of. Everything, and I mean EVERYTHING flows from your inner self. It is the foundation that all game is built upon.
B. Make yourself presentable: You do not have to be some idiotic guido who is vain beyond Naomi Campbell levels, but at least have a minimal level of cleanliness, hygiene, and fashion. If you do not have a good sense of style, that's fine, just wear the same nondescript things that every other guy does. I dress as non-descript as possible, and it works fine.
C. Talk to women: Seems basic doesn't it--but guess what? Most guys just go out and sip beers with their friends and don't do ****. You can't get big without lifting weight, you can't get fast without running sprints, and you can't have game without talking to women.
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2006-06-26 16:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by JLGolson 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
It's probably a much better idea to ask ladies how to get ladies to notice you...
2006-06-26 23:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by dreth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ladies like a confident man that knows what he wants and will wait for it you don't have to throw lame pick up lines just talk and a girl who u can talk to will love you just know what you want and be bold enough to get it
smelling good is good to
2006-06-26 23:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by pchardbooter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand up straight, always brush your teeth, smile wear nice shoes, be a nice guy dont "try to be cool or a player" just be you it is shown that many women look at a males teeth and shoes before anything else.
2006-06-26 23:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by bigbob33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't act like a jerk. be specific but not memorable, be funny but don't make em laugh. You have to to make the ladies like you but forget you when the moment you leave their sight. but the next time they see you, they'll be all over you
2006-06-26 23:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand on one foot. then flap your arms yelling......... I AM THE CHALAMALA!!! people will start noticing you...then stick your head in your shirt, bend over and run forward as fast as you can with the top of your head pointing in the direction you are running in while screaming...LOOK AT ME IM AIRODINAMIC!!!! girls will prolly notice you then....
2006-06-26 23:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by hmmmm..... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself! Dont put on a show or the person wont notice the real you
2006-06-26 23:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by ready4answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first mistake is asking males for advice on this topic.
Duh!
Ask the women!!!
2006-06-26 23:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by Eme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL COMING STRAIGHT FROM A LADY I WOULD SAY BE YOURSELF AND ACTUALLY LISTEN IF SHE EVER TALKS TO YOU CUZ I KNOW ALOT OF GIRLS WHO WON'T DATE A GUY IF HE WON'T LISTEN TO HER. BUT EVERY GIRL NO MATTER WHAT AGE LOVES A GUY WHO IS HIMSELF AND IS NOT AFRAID TO SHOW IT SO GO GET 'EM TIGER!!!!
2006-06-26 23:03:32 · answer #9 · answered by allie_4406 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hand out $100.00 bills
2006-06-26 23:00:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋