It is an at&t voicemail system and it is my girlfriends phone, and I know it sounds crazy but I think she is cheating and I would like to know for sure... please help me
2006-06-26 15:57:40 · 13 answers · asked by I love money 4 in Consumer Electronics ➔ Land Phones
It is illegal. Try finding out through legal means.
2006-06-26 18:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by Hawkboy 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Rather than trying to invade her privacy, and going to jail if she found out, I would approach the situation a little more logically.
First, meet with her, and just sit down & have a talk with her. Tell her how you feel about her & what you think might be going on. You can usually tell by the way someone reacts. If she freaks out, starts screaming at you, and gets mad, she might be. People tend to blame you for things they are doing. If she's understanding, very calm about it, and talks to you, try to trust her until you have a reason not to.
Think about this, how upset would you be if you weren't cheating on your girlfriend, but instead of her asking you, she figured out the passcode to your phone, and invaded your privacy. Would you want to be with her after that anyway? You would lose all trust that you had for her if she did that, just as she would you. And if you think she "won't know", don't be so sure. Women are smart. :) Goodluck!
2006-06-26 23:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by jasonsjewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really want help? Sit down with your girlfriend and ask her. You getting her voicemail code is just as bad as her cheating, if she is, which she might not be. If she says she isn't and you're still nervous then those are issues to be worked out by yourself and with your girl. But lemme tell you from experience that no good can come from spying and your girlfriend and discovering she is cheating on you. Worse would be if you spy on her, she isn't cheating on you, and then she finds out. Then you've got a super super pissed ex-girlfriend who wasn't actually cheating on you. Don't be stupid dude
But if you really want it, have a female friend of yours call AT&t posing as her. Make sure you know her social though.
(hey, I know how to get into things, ok?)
2006-06-26 23:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie Q. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I done this on my ex wifes cell, I was in Iraq and I thought she was cheating and got the voicemail to prove it. Save yourself some greif, if you think she is cheating, she probably is, nothing good will come about if you do confirm it. As much as it sucks, if your gut is telling you then you should listen. Dump her before she can dump you, there are too many women to be concerned over one. Try the last 4 of her SSN. If that don't work, then she has changed it.
2006-07-03 03:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you could get her account number .. maybe from a bill? you might be able to call with her information and tell them you forgot your pin or passcode and see if they will reset it for you. .. I hope she does not read this though.. I think she would dump you..
Off the topic of your question have you asked her if she is cheating?
2006-06-26 23:02:33 · answer #5 · answered by gentleman1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? Try the last 4 digits of her number.Or ask a tech by calling them.........Better off go on the Maury Show do a Lie Detector Test.
2006-06-26 23:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by G Briner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're really intent on doing this, then I'd call AT&T and tell them you forgot it, confirm some of her info, and get a new one, of course she'd find out, so its a lose-lose situation....
2006-06-26 23:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by Lost@Sea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two things to be said about that: invasion of privacy and lack of trust. Sorry.
2006-06-27 00:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by cptdrinian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, sorry to say Nutcase, but U R crazy!!!
show some respect, man...
2006-06-26 23:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess the numbers, you will only need to try exactly 1,000,000 times
2006-06-26 23:01:33 · answer #10 · answered by Sad Monkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋