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My 84-year-old grandpa is out of control. Last week at my kid's birthday party, he followed all her friends' mothers around and asked them if they like to swing. he was only wearing a raincoat. what should i do?

2006-06-26 15:54:42 · 28 answers · asked by Blonde Piaga 1 in Family & Relationships Family

28 answers

First of all get him a matching umbrella to go with the rain coat and give him my grandmothers phone # . She always was a stickler and wanted things to match.That # is ----------------
One more thing ask him what he eats for breakfast because I want to go on the same diet..

2006-06-26 16:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by irishlad 3 · 0 0

Tell him to go to swinger parties. He seems to be a lot of fun and full of energy. Check the Pleasure Zone parties in San Francisco, CA. I am pretty sure there are others in other states. At least that will keep him away from harrassing normal people who are not into it. There is another place in SF where he could have a lot of fun also, it is called the Power Exchange. It is a sex club.
ALso, watch out, it might be hereditary...which I am not sure if it is a good thing or not.

2006-07-06 13:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by Luana 2 · 0 0

IF HE IS OUT OF CONTROL, AND DOING SEXUALLY SUGGESTIVE ACTS, YOU HAVE TO DO SOMETHING, PLEASE DON'T WAIT UNTIL HE DOES SOME EMOTIONAL HARM OR SHOCK TO ANY PERSON, ESPECIALLY CHILDREN,
IF YOUR GRANDFATHER HAS HIS WITS? WHAT DOES HE SAY ABOUT THIS BEHAVIOR? WHAT DID YOU SAY OR DO? I DO NOT ENVY YOUR PROBLEM, HOWEVER, IF HE IS UNSTABLE, OR GETTING MENTALLY ILL AND HE HAS TESTOS(I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO SPELL THE REST OF THE WORD) I THINK THAT YOU UNDERSTAND,, IT IS NOT O.K. THE FACT THAT HE DID THIS ONCE MEANS IT WILL BE REPEATED OR ALREADY IS CONTINUED IS SERIOUS.. YOU ARE NOT THE "BAD GUY", or GAL, FOR PUTTING A STOP TO HIM, AND FOR HIS SAKE AS WELL AS ANY UNKNOWING PERSON,,,,YUCK.. IT IS NOT FUNNY, AND IF HE DISMISSES THIS , OR YOU DO,,WELL I THINK YOOU KNOW, HE, YOUR GRANDFATHER, HAS LOST CONTROL SOMEWHERE, MAYBE AGE, MAYBE OTHER FACTORS, BUT WHAT HAS HE BEEN DOING SINCE THIS PARTY? a
WHAT IS HE DOING RIGHT THIS MINUTE? YOU CAN NOT WATCH HIM EVERY MINUTE,, IT IS A SAD WAY TO REMEMBER YOUR GRANDFATHER, BUT EVEN MORE SAD, IF HE IS ALLOWED FREEDOM, WHERE HE DOES THINGS UNAPPROPRIATE.

GOOD LUCK

2006-06-26 16:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0 0

if this is an unusual behavior for him then he and you need to check with his doctor. there should be medicine out there for this and if not then a nursing home is a good place to be where he can be watched and helped 24/7, just make sure you check out the home before placing him in there. there are good ones and bad ones.. hopefully they are fully staffed at all times..

2006-07-08 12:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by montanamom 3 · 0 0

Dude Honey,
Don't take this the wrong way but that is really gross. I think that you should put him in a home. But make sure he stays away from those girld he was trying to get with.

2006-06-26 19:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by marry-me-olander 1 · 0 0

You need to go see his doctor and explain the behaviour, in case its a sign of dementia. Also.....dont invite him over anymore because your child doesnt need to be exposed to grandpas loss of control.

2006-07-04 02:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by Scully 4 · 0 0

You should feel ashamed of yourself because you obviously never gave your grandpa enough booty to work with. You need to march on over to his home and offer yourself up like Jesus did.

2006-06-27 11:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by snapessxy 4 · 0 0

ask him to take his sexual behavior out on u. this will protect the inocent. if he goes in a home... he will try fondling 300 lb ugly nurses. u love him more than that. give him urself. everyone is happy.

2006-06-26 16:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by bubba 1 · 0 0

Apply two layers of duct tape to that dang rain coat so it stays on. Definitely,

2006-06-28 16:38:59 · answer #9 · answered by roskez13 5 · 0 0

so what's the issue?? are the only ones allowed to be sex crazed loonies young guys???? take him to spring break or Sturgus for bike week..... he'll fit right in

2006-06-26 16:29:33 · answer #10 · answered by Clyde 5 · 0 0

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