I'm one of them, I'll admit. I never can get any attention from females and I hate that! They never notice me, I don't know why. Even when I was in school it was this way. I think I might be too plain or ordinary so they don't notice. I don't know. Do you think I do get noticed by females but maybe I don't notice them noticing me or there's just nothing attention getting about me. I know I'm not bad looking guy and I don't have a hygiene problem. If you females don't believe me I'll show you a photo leave me a e-mail. I'm not all that either, I'm o.k., I think. Anyway, girls just never notice me, and I'm not conceited either. How can I get attention from the females when they don't notice me and why do you think they don't give me attention? I'm talking about stranger females, or maybe a female I worked with.
2006-06-26 15:48:59 · 20 answers · asked by Shawn J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know, men like you that go "unnoticed" are what I consider to be one in a million. Not because you feel completely ignored by women, but because you guys are generally the ones that every woman would die for, if she weren't so distracted by "bling-bling", Cartier wristwear, and big dikks. Excuse the bluntess...But honestly, I have a friend like you. He went through the same thing; no attention in and out of school, every gf he's had dumped him for no reason....then he fell in love with me. Awkward as it was, I thought I just wanted to be friends. I saw the nicest guy in him, but he was like you feel you are: nothing out of the ordinary. But that's what made him extraordinary. Once I saw that by being his friend, I fell in love. We are now together...End of story: don't give up. At least this way, you know that the person you end up with is for real and will last. Have faith, my diamond in the rough...
2006-06-26 15:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by all_this_yella 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Looks arent' the only thing that gets people to notice you...personality is HUGE. If you've got a great personality and are very funny and cool to be around then alot of girls will notice you. I know that i notice guyz that aren't all that good lookin alot of the time...cuz they dress really nicely or they carry themselves well. Try it!
2006-06-26 15:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by c@ramel_m@mi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and learn to love yourself first, and give YOURSELF attention. What I mean by that is feel that you have value without getting attention from others to validate you... If you work on your self confidence it will definitely help. Also, initiate the contact with women casually. Don't be afraid to approach and ask to hang out with both women and men... mingle and see what happens!
2006-06-26 15:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by Shoshana S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like your leaving it up to them to notice you... maybe just developing your personality and social skills would be more advantagous than worrying what you look like. Looks usually have little to do with it... I think you might be shy or quiet type and need to feel confidence with who you are then others will notice you
2006-06-26 15:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by oktobejustme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u might have ADD, but girls notice either fugly guys or cute guys, if u are btwn u get less attention
2006-06-26 15:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your full of BS people seem to ignore that maby start being real first to yourself seems like the whole commet it to girls why not women why not men why and e-mail addresse why see picture would it realy be you sounds like beating around the bush asking for a girl to talk to you why dont you try being honest that might help pretty sad if you ask me and by the way i am guy just be real you'll be shocked i hope you know what real means?????
2006-06-26 16:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by negligent007 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm, well, did you know that sometimes girls get mad when they dont get any attention either. give it to them, dont expect it. go out of your way to make a girl feel special, you'll prolly get the attention you want then
2006-06-26 15:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by caseyrae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your self noticeable. Say something nice, or even give a compliment, but be sincere and honest.
2006-06-26 15:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by pattycakes382000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't really just go up to random women and be like all "hey biatch pay attentions to me!" You kinda have to have friends first and hang out with womens.
2006-06-26 16:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by Obeast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
females avoid guys coz most guys cares all about their looks.. the girls looks i mean.. they never try 2 find out wats inside!!! guys just stare at the girl and then they just try to "work it" most females avoid guys like that.
2006-06-26 15:53:02 · answer #10 · answered by ♥uR mY eVeRyThInG♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋