So, i've gone out with this boy for 7 months. it started out as a long distance relationship, and still is. my parents dont allow me to have any contact with him at all but i sneak it. i've seen him a total of 2 days. it wasnt so bad, we talked for hours everynight. now, he is not allowed to talk to me at all. we havent talked in 3 weeks. only on the internet. when i do talk to him i always ask him when he is going to be able to talk and junk...he never knows. i get so pissed, and end up crying all the time...i love him but i hate this. any advice?
2006-06-26 15:33:40 · 20 answers · asked by feliciaw92290 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you just have to face that it might be a while that you two can talk again. but if you really love him like you say, then just hang in there. i mean at least you two keep in contact and that's what really counts. i mean if he didnt care about you or wanting to keep you two's relationship going, then he wouldnt want to chat with you. so just hang in there girl, and it will take time.
2006-06-26 15:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by shar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really sucks but I'd have to say keep him as a friend right now, and when you're old enough where you can make your own choices then you can see where you're both at and can maybe start it up again. Are your parents against dating altogether or just this guy? I'd have a big talk with them about responsibility and find a common ground for your going out with people. If his parents are saying the same thing though, it sounds like it is just going to be a frustrating, unfulfilling relationship for awhile. Keep in touch with him (e-mail?) but the best way to move on (or at least distract yourself) is to surround yourself with friends and other guys, you may be surprised how many are out there.
2006-06-26 15:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by Surferchic50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is full of choices- many very hard to make. He is far away and communication, which is the building block of every relationship, is being heavily hindered in this case. It is up to you, dear, when you will find that you have had enough of the stress and heart ache and decide it is time to move on. The old saying goes is that if it is meant to be- it will be. Please take a closer look at what you initially found in this relationship and really decide if it will be worth all the pain and stress that obviously will continue. The amount of tears and suffering that you are experiencing are probably telling you the answer already!
2006-06-26 15:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by azguitar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know this boy for 7 months you haven't gone out with him for 7 months. You sound like your very young. I know you really like this boy but you need to give it a rest.Years from you won't even remember his name and if your parents see they can't trust you now then your going to have problems when you get older. He seems to be listening to his parents why don't you?
2006-06-26 15:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so u love the guy but u cant talk to him well here is my advice let him no u love him and if he really means it then he wood do any thing for u and talk to ur parents about the whole thing and ask them what is the problem with him and if they say some thing dumb then ask they y they dont let u talk to him or even mayb set up a date so u guyz can meet
2006-06-26 15:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by Ally. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Runaway with him and have his kids. Work in McDonald's and save enough money for you two to buy a trailer-house. Then teach the kids at home and wait for his dumb *** to come back smelling like alcohol and cheap perfume. Start smoking cigerettes and learn how to square dance. Then when it's all said and done, ask yourself why did you even bother asking this dumb question.
2006-06-26 15:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what its like I have been through the same exact thing. But in the end I broke up with him and now I have a guy I see everyday and fall more in love with everyday. When one door closes another opens. I have learned that throughout my life.
2006-06-26 15:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by ready4answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't waste another minute of your time stressing about him. there is a bazillion other fish in the sea. some of them you can actually see and talk with. it may suck for a week, but then every day that goes by you will feel way better about it. and in the end if by some crazy work of fate he's 'the one', then it will work out. it's happened to me. lifes to short. break up.
2006-06-26 15:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by casey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love him then you have to wait things out. If he loves you back then he will wait too. Who knows.... maybe when you get older you can take a road trip to go visit him or somethin!
If you are just in it because you only wanna talk to him and it makes you feel good, then you need to break it off.
I hope you get things figured out... i know how hard it can be
2006-06-26 15:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by nobody is home 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is living his life and you are waiting by the phone, Internet, etc. Your family is right. Your probably going to have some fun and then get hurt. Don't be so available to him. The boy should chase the girl.
2006-06-26 15:37:54 · answer #10 · answered by snowhite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋