I have known this guy for several years..he is a very shy guy, very reserved, yet very nice and friendly...the way he speaks is sexy...he's kind of a dork, a lot of people think he's antisocial...but I still like him because I can see past that..he is 25, I don't think he has even had a girlfriend...(or boyfriend if he's..you know..)..I find his mystery alluring..whenever I see him he smiles at me and talks to me...when we aren't talking to one another at a party he looks at me a lot...and I always catch his gaze...sometimes when we talk he glances "down there"....that turns me on sometimes...once we were talking and he avoided eye contact with me...he was finding things to say...then everyone started leaving the party..both of us were reluctant to get up...we just sat there..I wished we didn't have to leave...I don't know what he was thinking..when we finally had to part I whisered goodbye to him..he just looked at me..and then down at my boobs again, sayin nothin
2006-06-26 15:30:43 · 17 answers · asked by Soraya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make the first move,hes shy
2006-06-26 15:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by nate diggitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, a shy guy to you must be very unique. The guy you talk about are those kinds of guys I like, did you know that? Anyway, he reacted to you at the party because he had never experienced talking to a girl he keeps looking at, knowing that you have seen his gazes hundreds of times, and he doesn't want to make it obvious that he likes you. I think I had that situation too, except I'm 13 and I don't think it possible. Well, if you try flirting with him very very little, he'll find that he's comfortable talking to you and he wants to get to know you better. Try arranging a conversation with him other times, maybe secretly, if other people are thinking it's wierd.
Oh, by the way, looking at you at different parts, I think there was nowhere to look at because if he ever looked away or way down to the floor or up at the ceiling, he probably thought you would think that he doesn't want to talk to you.
2006-06-26 22:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by blingding 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one, I don't think this guy is "you know..." he's probably the type of guy I used to be, a lot of potential, but doesn't know how to put it to use. He can get the conversation going, but doesn't know how to confidently get out there and make a move. The eye gazing at your dirty pillows is a definite positive sign, and the fact that your'e turned on makes this hook up a good thing for the both of you. If you really want this dude I suggest you don't make a move, instead, you should let him do it....I know it sounds hard, but trust me you'll get him this way for sure. No guy wants a girl that is tooo pushy. Let him be a man and make the move. Good luck and take care of them boobs
2006-06-26 22:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That Guy you are talking about sounds like me before i finally got the balls to go and talk to my girlfriend. I waited a year literaly before i went up to her last week and told her i liked her. He probably likes you just as much as you like him he is just to shy to say anything. try just complimenting him and try to get him to say some nice stuff about you. THen everything will all come out slowly
2006-06-26 22:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by stlunitic210 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pop the question, ask him what's going on, and if he wants to go out with you. Seduce him when you are alone with him. Invite him somewhere, when it's just you and him. make your move, if he brush you off, ask him if he's left handed, if he ask why, tell him because he's sure not right! he might like boys, set him up with one.
2006-06-26 22:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by Kim Possible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn girl he wants you..he's the shy type..he likes you but he doesn't know how to tell you..he stares at you at hte party..he sits with you when everyone else is leaving..he looks down at ur boobs..its obvious he wants to get with you..maybe for ur boobs or cus you make him feel good..who knows..but..he likes you..he's just too shy to let you know..
2006-06-26 22:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he totally likes you but to shy to ask you out.
2006-06-26 22:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him....ON A DATE....Not back to his or your place....Sex will happen between you two....once that happens the friendship between you two is GONE!!!! To be with him longer the friendship has to last a while to REALLY get to know each other....Then get married....THEN WAHOOOOOO!!!!!
2006-06-26 22:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by spock78765 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is so obvious that this guy, just wants to sleep with you! i mean, that seems to be the only thing on his mind, everytime you two are alone. so i think that, its just a guy thing. i mean they get what they want and they just dump you like nothing!
2006-06-26 22:34:35 · answer #9 · answered by shar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he like you: YES!
What to do about it: a little kiss can go a long way.
2006-06-26 22:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by AnswerMan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋