a little less then a month will be a year..
do i give him something?
do we plan to go out?
what should i do?
2006-06-26 15:23:43 · 14 answers · asked by flow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should definately go out to celebrate.
2006-06-26 15:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, the first thing you have to remember is that most guys are a lot less interested in things like anniversaries than most girls are. So (unless you remind him), the odds are pretty good that he won't even notice this, let alone expect you to get him anything (or remember to get you anything).
Assuming that you want to make a big deal out of this, you're going to feel pretty let down if he doesn't do the same for you. So let him know that it's a big deal to you with enough time in advance for him to think of a present, save up for it, buy it, and so on -- otherwise you may find you got him something and he forgot to get you anything, and then you're both going to be upset. You might also want to give him some sort of hint about how much effort/expense you're planning on putting in, so he doesn't end up underdoing or overdoing it when he gets you something. Frankly, most guys are pretty clueless about this sort of thing (if your boyfriend is an exception then you're lucky).
As for what to get him, I'd suggest giving him something that will in some subtle way remind him of why he's with you (and why he wants to stay with you). That could be something to do with some interest you share, something associated with some attribute of yours that you know he appreciates, or whatever. It could be something romantic, something sexy, a special treat, or something he'll use every day. But it should be something that will be special to him and that is appropriate to you and what you mean to him. Also, figure out the budget you're willing to put into this.
You might well want to make an event out of it as well, or instead of, buying him a gift: you could go out for a date, or if you or he have have your own place you could stay in for a romantic evening. Again, the aim here is to remind him why he's happy he spent the last year with you, and to encourage him in the thought that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you (and if he's comittment phobic, as some guys are, to subtly persaude him that that would be a good thing, not something he needs to be scared of).
2006-06-26 22:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by Roger D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give him a sweet card and you guys need to go out to dinner or somewhere nice. Maybe buy him a watch or something like that. Oh and a few kisses on that night won't hurt. Just have fun!
2006-06-26 22:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by Red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all really depends on where you are in your relationship and what other things you have given him prior. What would be romantic is bring him out to the exact place where you first met or went on your first date. I bet that is something you have not forgotten. Then it will be easy to look how far the relationship has grown and how closer you are now from then back when you first started. I think that would be romantic!
2006-06-26 22:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by azguitar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do, make sure to remind him. Us guys usually don't keep track of dates. You will most likely be dissapointed if you think he will remember on his own.
Don't give him anything!
He isn't expecting it.
I bet you are though!
Just make plans to do something together.
Avoid dissapointment and just have fun, like anyother day. :)
2006-06-26 22:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by vande-man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a lap dance, doesn't cost anything and he'll love it!! And if ur not having sex yet, then good for u!! So give him something like concert tickets, or tickets to a sports show for him and a friend.
2006-06-26 22:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he understand the significance as you do, plan together. if not surprise him with something that represents how and why you guys fell in love or even where. i gave mine's a card reminding him of what i want when we are married( we met on the night my cousin were married and we chatted about that was what we wanted)
2006-06-26 22:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by msmarle99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it were me..my gf wouldn't have to have money to make me happy on special days like my b-day..christmas..vanlentines day..etc..all i need is love..and just show that she cares..
surprise him..make a special dinner b4 he gets home..or set up when he's in the shower and when he comes out..have it ready..put on a sexy lengerie..i don't care what anybody says..all guys love lengerie..lace thongs and bra..can't go wrong with that..i'll bet money on that ..he'd pick..a dinner with you in ur sexy lace thong and bra and a night of some hot sex over some expensive ring..watch..etc.
2006-06-26 22:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out, get dolled up, wear something sexy underneath, a small gift and then make with the love.
2006-06-26 22:25:37 · answer #9 · answered by embigguns 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should so make that day/special night a rememberable one. and well, i think that would be a very generous and caring thing to do. just to show your man, that you really care about him and how much you really care for him!
2006-06-26 22:31:34 · answer #10 · answered by shar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋