I used to go with this boy names markise...he is was my first and we were together for about one 3 months and then we broke up but we were still screwing and then i met this boy "Jay" and we started talking and one thing led to another and we started dating, then we were a COUPLE. Then about a moth later he told me to meet him at his friends house and gave me the address. So i went and it was Markise's house. I was in shock and I didnt no what to do. So I acted like nothin ever happened between us...then Markise started calling me and things and he wanted to be my boyfriend and hen we started back screwin ( he was my first and only at the time). About a month later I broke up with Jay and then I was at Markise house and Jay came and Markise told him that we were screwin while me and him was toghether. Of coarse Jay wa mad and Didnt wanna talk to me but I go with Jay again and He cheated on me and tried to get me pregnant. I know this is twisted please help. Advice??
2006-06-26 15:20:32 · 31 answers · asked by victoria Raynisha C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
learn to keep your legs shut...at least until you learn proper English or.........until you want to make love instead of screwing!
2006-06-26 15:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, Markise was wanting to get back with you because he knew about you and Jay. The reason he cheated on you is because he doesn't love you OR respect you. It's time to walk away from Markise and Jay. Find someone else who respects you. This time, take time to get to know the person before you have sex, three months isn't a lot of time. Have some respect for yourself. You'll be glad you did.
2006-06-26 15:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you date or start "screwin" friends you have a problem. You need to let them both go and start anew. You should save your "screwin" for the man you intend to marry. Keep on playing around with these two guys and you will really be screwed, with a baby and neither man. You don't need this drama.
2006-06-26 15:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by gmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU were wrong! I honstly can't figure out which one of the men you are calling your EX, since you've been back and forth between them. By the sounds of it, you're with Jay again. You're worried that he cheated on you, but look what you did to him. And as far as "trying" to get you pregnant...come on now....if you stop screwing around, it can't happen. Why is the world would you do anything that could get you pregnant when it sounds like you really don't know exactly where your head is at? End it with both of them till you decide exactly which one (if either of them) you want to be with. Going back and forth is very, very unhealthy!
2006-06-26 15:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wrong, You should know what you want before you get involve this way you could get out when it doesn't seem right. It doesn't matter who you are with or how long you been with them what matters is who has your heart don't think about the pass cause it could bite you in the @$$. You never go with someone you dated while talking to someone he know, cause they really won't believe in you.This mess you got yourself in is it worth it do you really want to be with someone who does not respect you? Ask what is more important to you playing these little games with your life. Do you want to have a child with a guy who think he could cheat on you, for you know it may be pay back time. And people who are to get you are not the ones you should be around. Think what is it you really want for yourself forget what they want, if it doesn't include respect what good is it, this includes you to judge your own action before you have to pay a big price.
2006-06-26 15:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by zephyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a soap opera.lol Unless you are in love with one of them, you should start anew and just get rid of both boys, and use what you have learned from this exsperience and try to not make the same mistakes. Start to respect yourself and next time make sure it is right for the both of you. And you really do not need a boy trying to get you prenant, you got better things to do with your life. Start a family when you are married not vise versa.
2006-06-26 15:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by momtree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you did something wrong also. And two wrongs do not make a right. You want to get pregnant by this man? You two are not made for each other if that is all you do is cheat on each other. You have to go with what your heart feels and can none of us tell you what is right and what is wrong. Do you love him? Does he love you? Are you ready for commitment? Answer those questions to yourself and there is your answer
2006-06-26 15:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by cici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty bad.... Probably see you on Dr. Phill or Jerry Springer in the near future.
Seriously, you have to know what you want in a relationship, and who can give that to you. It seems to me that you are playing just as much as they are. I'd say everyone is wrong with this situation, get out of it and start over.
2006-06-26 15:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by Landslide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop screwin........dont screw either of them anymore just drop em both and dont screw anyone for a while, then find someone thats not from where you are so they wont hear the gossip about you bein a ho, cus thats what markiz and jay are sayin and they may be spreading it.....ight girl!
2006-06-26 15:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop Screwing
2006-06-26 15:23:06 · answer #10 · answered by CincyGal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like to call any one whore as that is a NON-EXISTENT quality. However it seems you like men and more men. So go ahead, how does it bother you whether one boy or two boys object to it. Its your life - lead is the way you want. Its your pu_ssy allow any co_ck to enter it - its your choice.
But if want to live a stable life you have to select one boy and stop visiting others.
2006-06-26 15:28:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋