i have invaded privacy like checking her mail and we fight alot but i love her
2006-06-26 15:19:55 · 15 answers · asked by Daniel R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LEAVE HER ALONE dont do anything
2006-06-26 15:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Justin 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
sweetie only you know...Love is Strong and it only hurts if your disappointed, but believe me don't force a relationship to avoid accepting the reality of the current situation. Love isn't all if you Really Really care for her then you would be able to accept her in your life how she is planned to be, whether it's friends or in a courtship. If you fight a lot and mostly from insecurities and Mistrust(yes MIA trust) that's a sign of ideological perceptions and lack of maturity, meaning your ego is bigger than your heart and conscience. If it's meant to be it will be. that is not a lie. it doesn't take that "kind of fight" for love. besides a year may seem long but it's not you were just really getting to know each other, really.
2006-06-26 22:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say how to get your ex back, I don't know the circumstances of your break up. But one thing that is guaranteed to NOT get your ex back is to beg them, or keep calling them and trying to get them back. That is guaranteed to push her away. If you want another chance, then maybe have a talk with her and ask her why she wanted to break up and ask her if theres anything you could've done to change. If she says its too late and refuses to give you another chance, then you'll need to back off and let her go because doing anything else is guaranteed to push her completely away. Now is the time to think about why you two broke up and the part you played in the break up and how you can change. And give her space, if she decides she wants you back, she'll come back to you, especially if you back off and leave you alone. People always want what they can't have. Unless she knows its over and wants it that way, in which case ,its better to just leave her alone, because it's futile and trying to get her back will only cause you more pain.
2006-06-26 22:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by Selena Jade's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST you really need to gain back her trust bc without trust and a friendship love means nothing-TRY gaining that trust and making a friendship with her and maybe love will come about Dont keep apologizing bc its already done somehow assure her u wont do it again GOOD LUCK!! UR GONNA NEED IT
2006-06-26 22:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by jessie_317 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat with ya.. she hates me though. Some things just arent meant to be no matter how bad u want it. She has to feel the same way as u and be willing to work through anything.
2006-06-26 22:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by Lookinstr8over 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay,everyone fights it's all part of a relationship.does she love you?coz u can't make someone love you again if you are meant to be things will work out .talk to her tell her how you feel.love is the hardest part of life but it can also be the best.good luck i am here if you need to talk to someone email me miss_shaz18@yahoo.com.
2006-06-26 22:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say: Take a step back. If she comes to you, then she loves you and there is a chance, if she doesn't , then,,,,,, well, you can always try flowers. It works like charm on me when I am relaly angry with my boyfriend and he wants to make up.
2006-06-26 22:25:14 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try showing her how much u do love her. Treat her like a lady
2006-06-26 22:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way she'll forgive you and compromise with you is that you tell her that you really love her and is sorry for what you did. And you'll make up for it.
2006-06-26 22:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by blingding 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you loved her you would not have needed to check her mail.
2006-06-26 22:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by jolees56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her that you really really really really really care about her. don't disturb her privacy except if she say it's ok.. don't force her to do what she don't wanna do and let her be free.. make her feel safe, secure and comfortable with you..
2006-06-26 22:29:26 · answer #11 · answered by Honey Gee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋