2006-06-26 15:16:47 · 34 answers · asked by Chrysanthemum 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes.
What's up with Women who think that dating is about sex? A date is like an interview for the job of girlfriend or boyfriend, it should be about talking and listening, to determine if there is compatibility.
2006-06-26 15:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies... everyone is different. Just because a man expects sex on the first date doesn't mean he's a bad guy, it can mean a lot of things. Sex isn't bad, at all. However, I would make sure you were both looking for the same thing beforehand. If he's going on this date for a one night stand and an easy way to releive some personal desire, and you're going on the date because you're looking for a long, passionate relationship, it's probably best to keep looking. If you're going on this date for a long passionate relationship as is he, but he does enjoy some physical intimacy sooner than most, I would give it an OK. All in all, it depends how much he wants you. If he wants you quite a bit, he will come around. If he's willing to ditch a relationship because he missed out on the sex he was looking for, I would say you're not his type.
2006-06-26 15:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by Grace K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I know how you girls appreciate the ACT. The EVENT. So...just like you girls, not all the boys are the same. Though, most of us try to GET something. It's our way...the need.
Still, if you're thinking of spending some more time with him from now on, if you are thinking he's your romance etc and if you are thinking his qualities are worthy enough to give yourself to him, you should ...just WAIT and see what happens after this not sex night.
Listen, most of us, work strategically, players, usually the hot looking guys with whom you'd actually be tempted to sleep. Like I said, it's our way.
Honestly, first I'm her best friend then if things match, lover. That's how I appreciate girls. Really... be smart and careful or just risk having something beautiful, or not.
2006-06-27 06:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A decent man would be more likely to see you again if you did not sleep with him on the first date, he would respect you. A good man wouldn't even think about having sex on the first date. If a guy wants to have sex right away, that's prolly all that he wants from you.
2006-06-26 15:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be sleeping with him on the first date unless you're sure that you want to. Frankly, even if all he's after is sex, he'll probably come around several times in the hope of getting it.
2006-06-26 15:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy only wants sex he might move on but if he really loves you he will wait till you are ready. (Hopefully when your married) Try to remember your virginity is a gift you give your husband on your wedding night. Don't let him tell you anything different or talk you into anything. Guys will do anything to get physical. Save your self for a deserving worthwhile person.
2006-06-26 15:23:12 · answer #6 · answered by snowhite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he's a gentleman and wants a reletionship that will last, yes he will come back. Why do you feel you have to put out on the first date in order to have him continue seeing you? If that's the case, then he'll only want you for the sex and not for you.
2006-06-26 15:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If he doesn't he was just looking to get in your pants and you are better off rid of him. Wait at least until date #3. And then only if you are comfortable. Don't feel pressured to have sex to try to keep the guy, have sex when it's what you want and what you are ready for.
2006-06-26 15:26:12 · answer #8 · answered by Lizabout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to hope so. Depends on how interested he is in you and also depends on how you met.
A lot of guys are sleezy and want sex/fun, but there are the few out there who seem that way at first, and then totally change and become "good" later.
2006-06-26 15:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by SP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly cares about you, he will not use sleeping with him as an option for him to stay. Some guys may even see it as the girl being easy.
2006-06-26 15:21:23 · answer #10 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋