my ex and i broke up 5 months ago we are opposites im very visual he is analytical he said he felt as though our relationship was going in a bad direction for a couple months after we split, he and i were still friends we still had sex our last time we had sex was Feb 16th we still made out and foreplay until the middle of march, and then he started being really mean to me i got a new bf and my ex still was mean but around graduation he started acting nicer he picked me up from my house and took me to the senior breakfast because i didnt have a ride he did complain about that but my friend said if he didnt care he wouldnt have done that at graduation he tried to hide his smile when i got my diploma he helped my parents look for me and he was concerned. when they found me he made sure then hurried away. at the allnighter he played twister with me and my friend when i said something not funny he laughed when i went to his house he didnt talk to me but still came upstairs whats his deal?
2006-06-26 15:15:36 · 8 answers · asked by stoogegirl53 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As with any relationship, there are things we like and dislike about the other person. My guess is that on balance, your ex "likes" you, but not enough for the relationship to keep progressing. Maybe he likes you in small doses. I'm sure you have friends like that, too. It could also be that there are a few annoying things about you that he forgets about until he sees you for a while.
As far as wanting to fool around with you, I don't know. I do remember when I was that age...I couldn't possibly have gotten enough. Sometimes sex (or whatever) is just sex. It doesn't necessarily mean anything, especially if he is not going to be in a committed relationship with you.
If you like the guy's company, and you don't mind fooling around for pleasure's sake, go for it. However, if you think you two are going to hook back up...it probably won't happen, or if it does, it won't last long. Whatever caused you to fall apart the first time hasn't gone away and it will happen again.
Nobody is perfect, but find someone more perfect for you.
Good luck,
C
2006-06-26 15:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by chuck_jax 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a chance that yes, he may still like you as more than a friend. But, that said, he may just be after "a lil' sum'sumthin'"... if you know what I mean. In which case that wouldn't exactly be a good thing. Talk to him about it, maybe even being so bold as to ask how he feels about you. He is still your friend. Maybe there were just things happening in his life earlier that were affecting how he acted towards you.
2006-06-26 22:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be truthful to your guy that you have now, because if you even give your ex a chance, it will probably turn out to be the same as your first time, and you will have given up the great guy you have now.
2006-06-26 22:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by ~Lindsey~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he cares for you ,but he is scared about his feelings about you. He probably is too young for a commitment, but still wants your body. Typical male behavior, most men stay that way. What are your gutts telling you? Go with that feeling.
2006-06-26 22:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by pattycakes382000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's sending you signs of confusion because he is confused.
2006-06-26 22:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants in your pants....... without any strings
2006-06-26 22:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by aspecialfred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm yeh i think so
2006-06-26 22:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by ill tell u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shud talk to him more if it is true.
2006-06-26 22:20:20 · answer #8 · answered by alexis h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋