2006-06-26 15:04:47 · 10 answers · asked by Crazy LA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Probably not. The purpose of a wedding shower is to get all those household-ish things that you might not otherwise get as wedding gifts. A wedding shower at this stage in her life might seem as just a desperate ploy to get more gifts and money. If the purpose of the shower in the eyes of the bride-to-be is just to celebrate with family and friends, a carry-in dinner, with the stipulation that the only gift needed is the company of others, is appropriate. Celebrating with food is always a good thing.
2006-06-26 16:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't throw your own shower. Traditionally the bridesmaids or a family member who isn't your mom does it. If they want to have a shower, have a shower. My cousin had 2 kids and was living with her man for years and she had a shower.
2006-06-26 17:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's proper for someone to hold a wedding shower for her...it's tacky for her to throw her own.
2006-06-26 15:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look you are the maker of you universe. proper is what you make it. I say have a bridal shower and enjoy good times with good people. I have a fiance and 2yo twins and i am having one next year. your life is yours live and enjoy. Congrats.
2006-06-26 15:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Blair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't throw your own shower. Your maid of honor or matron of honor plans the shower. (Can also be friends of you that plan a shower instead of maid or matron of honor.)
Of course it is alright to have a shower even if you've lived together and have a child.
2006-06-26 15:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by housefullofboys3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she can still have a wedding shower but if someone else hosts it(say the maid of honor) it would be tacky to throw your own.
2006-06-28 04:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by nanimos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not?and it gives you an excuse to have a girls only party!He might want to have a bachelor party too.
2006-06-26 16:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by mobilmen59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not proper ettiquette, but i guess ,if she cared about ettiquette she would've done everything in correct order.ex: engagement,marriage,live together, child.
2006-06-26 15:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah why not, any excuse to have a party is good
2006-06-26 19:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not
2006-06-27 09:44:42 · answer #10 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋