2006-06-26 14:58:16 · 12 answers · asked by kenny k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like i'm sometimes insecure about her because last year she left me for my best friend and that never gos away we went out last year for 8 months and now were to 4 months thise year. but idk she always tells me how she loves other guys and how cute and adorable they are. So i get scared usually, i todl her about it once and she said shed try and change but that never rly happened. I just sometimes feel very neglected when shes with our friends
2006-06-26 15:04:25 · update #1
Like i'm sometimes insecure about her because last year she left me for my best friend and that never gos away we went out last year for 8 months and now were to 4 months thise year. but idk she always tells me how she loves other guys and how cute and adorable they are. So i get scared usually, i todl her about it once and she said shed try and change but that never rly happened. I just sometimes feel very neglected when shes with our friends
And also when i even mention that I mention a girl, even my best friend, she suddenly thinks i'm going to leave her, i've lost many of good friends becasue i'd rather have us work out. I love her with all my heart.
2006-06-26 15:07:59 · update #2
If it bothers you, say something. You probably love her open personality, as long as it is only open to you, and it is probably what got you into her in the first place. Let her know it bothers you and she will most likely try to work on it.
2006-06-26 15:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by lameskater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u can either speak up and let her know u don't like her flirting and talking about other guys or u can beat her at her own game.
Flirt with other girls and talk about them around and to her, I mean pour it on lik ecrazy just to give her a taste of ehat she's doing 2 u, if and whe she says she doesn't like it , then say
Ur just enjoying the other girls as she does the othr guys. If it gets to be too much for her then tell her " DAAAAAAAAA, THATS HOW I FEEL WHEN UR FLIRTING AND TALKING ABOUT OTHER GUYS"
Sometimes u have to let a person see how it feels
2006-06-26 15:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you that much, talk to her about it. Let her know how you feel about it. Perhaps it's something that she didn't even realize she's doing, and she will stop it. My girlfriend is, in a way, the same way. She has a lot of older men who are interested in her (she's 16), and she does talk to a couple of them on the phone. But she sorta tries to hide it from me by refering to them only as "a friend", though I've already figured out that almost any time she says "friend", she's talking about a guy. I've told her how it makes me feel when she's talking to them, which is that I do get quite jealous but I know she likes to talk to them. She just reminds me every once in a while that she loves me, not them.
If she's really not trying to change it, let her know that you've talked to her about it before. If there's still no change, I hate to say it but you may need to end it. You shouldn't have to lose friends simply because she's scared you're gonna leave her for one of them. I'm still very close friends with one of my ex-girlfriends. We still get together to hang out once in a while. But my girlfriend knows that I'm with HER, not with my ex, and that i'm not leaving her for anyone else.
2006-06-26 15:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is trying to make you jealous. She is doing this because she wants attention. You guys must be still in high school or something. I know it's hard to ignore it, but you guys need to have a chat. Communication is the key. If she doesn't change the way she is acting then it's time to 86 her. What she is doing is being immature. You don't have any time to waiste so let her know what's on your mind pronto!
2006-06-26 15:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's testing you and observing your reactions
or she's a bit** no offence and are with you just because she doesn't date anyone better.
Consider how attached to you she is. If she is distant or very close, like call you all the time, a lot of compliments, this stuff.
I hope is the second one, if it is just hold you position confident and say.. "yeah, that guy has a nice butt indeed". this will make she confused and uncounciously note you don't fear if she brake up with you. that's point to u! its like saying "hey, I'm the MAN! and there're a lot of pretty girls looking for me and if you wanna go away, bye bye".
I hope it helps. :)
2006-06-26 15:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by www.citimates.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dish it right back to her. Talk about other girls, and flirt with them.... she's testing you! She wants to know what she can get away with. If you let her, she'll run all over you until she finds someone else that doesn't put up with that crap. Seems to me that most women like a man that will stand his ground. Good luck!
2006-06-26 15:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by Landslide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it, tell her that u feel bad and that u feel that ur not good enough for her tell her that is tearing u apart inside
2006-06-26 15:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by smiles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and find out wats going on and work things out and if she doesnt seem to change about it then its not worth it.
2006-06-29 07:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by i love him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that your girlfriend is taking advantage of you cause she already learned how to manage you her way
2006-06-26 15:16:33 · answer #9 · answered by j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about other girls and see how she feels about it
2006-06-26 15:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋