I'm confused about this?

Question

I am always answering others peoples questions about what to do in dating situations and all that, but in my own life I am a mess at all that! Heaps of my friends say I give really good advice, but I can't understand y my own luvlife sucks if I am so good at giving advice! Any ideas?

Answer 1

i feel the same way. my life is a mess and i count on yahoo answers to get advice on my own life because no one else seems to have any. you can't look for mister right for all you know you've already met him in the grocery store or at your work... you NEVER know. just take some of your own advice, i know its way easier said then done, but hey if its so good try some. and i agree this mostly happens to people who have a good caring heart. its hard to make your own decisions because you don't wnat to hurt anyone in the process, you want to make sure everyone is happy before you are. im trying to break that habit myself. good luck and everything always works out eventually. just take your time and be happy. continue to care about people but set up boundaries so you don't get taken advantage off.

Answer 2

There are two possibilities. One is that you are a kind caring person and practical application of what you see from the outside looking in is probably the best advice and works 9 of 10 times. Due to a low self esteem, poor social status, or other restriction you do not allow yourself the privelege of a personal relationship. or Two you are fat and ugly loser and no one has anything to do with you.

Answer 3

Others are probley right. You give great advice. I think maby you try so hard for them and not paying much attention to your own life. Just sit back and enjoy life. Before you know it I beet you will see a chang in your love life. It ushally happends when you least exspect it. Good luck............

Answer 4

When you figure it out, please let me know. I'm confused too.