2006-06-26 14:38:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her.
2006-06-26 14:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, there is no way to TELL if a girl is a virgin. You have to go by what she tells you and decide how well you trust her word.
If a girl's hymen is broken, it could've happened from anything. Falling down the stairs, or a bumpy ride on a rollercoaster. Sorry, but it's not like a super-strength thing that will withstand anything except a penis pushing at it.
Doctors can't really tell. My gyn had no idea if I was a virgin because I was 18 and it was already broken. I didn't have sex to break it. It was from some other activity in life. Who knows what. But if a girl says she's never had sex, then you need to decide if you believe her.
Also, if you have sex with her and she doesn't bleed... that's no way to judge if she was a virgin or not. I didn't bleed when I did the first time. That's just a bunch of bull. Unless you're having sex with a teen, you're not going to cause extreme pain and cause her to bleed. The pain of a girl's first time is usually soreness the next day because of things being stretched in a way they've never been before. It's not excruciating! Sheesh, people.
Don't listen to anyone but her. If you have doubts, then that's for you and her to work out. But there is not a miracle way to tell. Just like there's no way for her to tell if you've never done it, either.
2006-06-26 21:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the most mature thing would be to ask her but if she feels uncomfortable change the subject or tell her you find it attractive that a girl is still a virgin. You can really tell by the way a girl acts though if she is uncomfortable with you making out with her or something she more than likely isn't experienced.
2006-06-27 20:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by jennjenn09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her examined by a physician. But even this isn't fool proof. In India and other countries where virginity is a big deal, plastic surgeons are repairing the hyman.......
2006-06-26 21:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by ladyren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a thin piece of skin deep inside of her,if she is still a virgin you would feel it when you make love.if she is no long a virgin it would not be bronken thur and would stop any thing from going to deep inside of her.
2006-06-26 21:48:28 · answer #5 · answered by milewalker200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How you can know is. First ask her if she is or not. You could also talk about sex, sex positions and anything to do with sex. Also bring up using protection. Just talk about sex to get her reactions. If you bring up sex positions or oral sex and she doesn't know what your talking about or and doesn't know how to do these positions. Maybe she's a virgin or just doesn't know how to do them. There's plenty of ways to figure it out besides just asking her if she is or not.
2006-06-26 21:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by delawaregirl83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if she is a virgin she will most likely bleed if you have sex with her, that means that her hyman was not broke. otherwise ask her like the other two answers said.
2006-06-26 21:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by littlechicky_82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant base it off if they bleed that first time... it can get "broken" from a number of things other then sex. Just ask.
2006-06-26 21:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by Im just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.
What Lindsey said.
Sheesh!
2006-06-26 21:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by Ginny Lou the Peachy One 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Daddy used to say jist look at er and if shes ugly then yee no she probbly is.
2006-06-26 21:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by Nadine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with her to a obgyn and get the official word.
2006-06-26 21:41:26 · answer #11 · answered by tiger_skratch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋