Ok I've been dating this guy for a week. He REALLY likes me and wants to kiss me. I'm wayyyyyyyy too nervous and I have no idea what to do. I'm afraid I'll freak out if he tries to kiss me, or I'll be a really bad kisser. What can I do!!? Everytime he tries to like put his arm around me or hold my hand I get nervous. Sometimes when I see him I don't even want to talk because I'm so nervous.
2006-06-26 14:38:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Will..................shut up. : )
2006-06-26 14:56:06 · update #1
Its funny I have the same problem too!!!!! Im afarid to kiss my gf, but idk if she will like it or like run away!!!!! She doesnt know im nervous, everytime i see her i get scared because i think i will do something stupid!!!!! But i know that after i kiss my gf she will be happy and glad she did it... so all i have to say is, just dont think and do it!!!!!
2006-06-26 14:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by emokid9963 2 · 8⤊ 4⤋
If you are that nervous about physical contact (hand holding and such) maybe you shouldn't be dating? Tell him straight up, you're not ready for anything physical like kissing...that usually goes along with dating someone though, so be prepared for a possible negative reaction.
2006-06-26 21:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you REALLY like the guy just kiss him! He will understand that you are nervous and I bet you that he is even nervous too. Just don't think about it that much and just go with the flow ... things will be great !!! :)
2006-06-26 21:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just calm down. dont be so nervous and relax. he wont want to kiss you if he realizes youre paniced. dont stress about being a bad kisser, no one is perfect theyre first time around.
2006-06-26 21:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by standstill 22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow and follow his mouth. You will do perfect. The first kiss is always your best kiss anywayz. Good Luck and dont worry, you will be fine.
2006-06-26 21:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by ~Lindsey~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow and even if it is a bad kiss he should like you for how you are. Have Fun!!!!!
2006-06-26 21:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl its all good no ones first kiss is perfect if it gets to point u think its goin to happen then gurl jus go with it dont stop it even if it sucked the first time there is always time to make up for it
2006-06-26 21:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by sexilady4rmva09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I had my first kiss I was nervous but you have to get over that fear sometime. You might not be ready
2006-06-26 21:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by Mariana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not rush it....you have to be comfortable.
you have to make sure you know him very well and he is the right person. and if you are too young wait....
I have my first kiss at age of 21 and we got married 3 months later... my first kiss did not waist ;)
good luck
2006-06-26 21:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont want to make u afraid....but i lived an inverse situation when some years ago .....and our relation got broken bcuz of this..
iam not hurrying u...let the flow go...take a big courage ...dont think about this...when he attempts to kiss just let the flow go...kiss its like dance..ull learn dance moves as u dance...believe me
2006-06-26 21:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by rapstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me most guys are just as nervous as whoever they are dating.
2006-06-26 21:42:12 · answer #11 · answered by Idiotman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋