I'm involved in a casual "relationship" with this guy. Because of our conflicting work scheduals, we only talk or see each other once or twice a week, if that. The time we spend together is like if we are actually a couple, and when we are not, not. He constantly brings up the question of whether or not I could see him as a boyfriend, but at the same time he says he's not ready for a relationship. I'm not about to try to sell myself to him, so if he's not ready, than he's not ready. Should I just not take him seriously or is it his way of trying to make me make the first move. I wasn't thinking about a relationship until he brought it up, and now I can't stop thinking about it.
2006-06-26 14:08:45 · 8 answers · asked by Sydney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TIME is the answer; Time will tell!!!@
2006-06-26 14:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by hunterman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him there's not point in discussing it if he's not ready for a relationship. If he becomes ready, then let you know and you can talk about it then. Until then, don't get used to using him as a bf when he's not actually one...
2006-06-26 14:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by daisy519 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like maybe in the near future he will be ready. Maybe its his sign of telling you to be ready for one, because he is almost ready. Good Luck, because it sounds like in the near future you will have a boyfriend.
2006-06-26 14:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should find someone on a schedule similar to yours. He is sending you mixed messages....you want a real b/f not just a **** buddy.
2006-06-26 14:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just feeling you out...maybe hes afraid out rejection..just put it out there..how do you feel about the situation..do you want more..or are you fine the way it is..and just tell him your a little confused and you want to know what he wants..communication...thats what its all about..
2006-06-26 14:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by MotherNature 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him y he brings it up. most likely he wants a relationship
2006-06-26 14:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to make up his mind on what he really wants
2006-06-26 14:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by kawboys1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what you just asked us see what he says. be honest tell him he is confusing you!
2006-06-26 14:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by kaycee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋