doesn't it worrie you how young kids are talking about and having sex,what happened to growing up?

Question

its not just what you hear on here,but i have friends with little sisters,that think that sex is normal at 12,its not. kids should grow up first,then they might understand more about relationships. no offence intended here!

Answer 1

yes once my son hits puberty i am locking him in a closet

Answer 2

No the superior dutch kids aere fully educated about sex from a young age, its all over TV, they are very open about it. and by detailed sex ed I mean detail into blowjbs, and how to avoid getting pregnant by getting fingered if the guy accidently has seimin on fingers.

All about relaltionships and foreplay the lot...


Guess what????

No unweanted teenage pregnancies and the kids tend to wait till around 17 even though the legal age is 14. And that it has nothing to do with relgion but when they feel right about it, then they are experts in contraception, virtually no STDs...


Kids want to do kiddie stuff, teens into teen stuff....



Keeping kids thick only hurts them, and you find they will start doing it earlier due to chamged in the start of puberty age (poss due to food) or as brotught up in ignorance so its more tantalising...

Ie forbidden fruit...

In the Netherlands its all open, and expected at teenage, so no forbidden fruit so it occures when kids are truelly ready.


Look up statistics if you dont believe me

Answer 3

Heck, I too talked a lot of nonsense growing up, sex included, even looking at naked pics, when I could. But nothing happened, until I got a lot older.
But somehow, it seems each suceeding generation starts sex, a lot sooner, than the previous one.
That is scary, having sex at twelve and thirteen, makes you wonder what the hell the parents are doing.

Answer 4

****, see that baldy dude, 23!!!!!! wtf did he do with his adolesence, young kids have been having sex since the beggining of time, dont know about the old US but up until the late 19th century over here it was normal for 13-14 yr old girls to be prostituting themselves and im pretty sure that goes for mainland industrial europe too, back in the days of the ancients if a girl was past 15-16 she was judged too old. and this is just europe and middle east so god only knows what the japs, chinese and koreans got up to, they eat dogs in korea for christ sake, DOGS ewwwww. oh anyway in answer to your question no it does not worry me coz i was sexually active at 13 an loved every minute of it , we only think of it as wrong because that is how we are taught to think but what makes our ideologys better than those of the romans and numerous other societys which were no more decadent than our own, saying that though if i have a daughter she is gonna be stayin a virgin for like ever

Answer 5

yes and it makes me question if i want children at all. when kids think that oral sex is casual and kissing on the mouth is more personal -- i freak out! i reserve oral sex (and any sex for that matter) for someone i care deeply about. sex is not casual and i think kids are having sex too young... too young to accept the responsibilities of the consequences of it. i'm not an old lady, i'm 26 myself. it is just my opinion, not an attack. i know not all kids are like this now.

Answer 6

I know exactly where you are coming from! Sex seems to be getting younger and younger with children (and they ARE children!!) Perhaps it is due to the fact that sex sells, and so is near enough everywhere that you turn-whether it is on the television (some sexual content on tv starts as early as 9pm) or whether it is in magazines, etc etc.

I know someone very close to me in the family that had her first sexual encounter when she was 12. I had a serious chat with her-and tackled it immediately after i found out (i had seen pictures of it taken on her camera!) I also spoke to the boy in question, and informed my mum of what was going on behind closed doors! I wanted to protect this family member from sexual encounters at such a young age-as firstly their bodys are not ready for it and secondly they are not mature or even understand what the conseqences can be!

This girl didnot have sexual intercourse-but too part in foreplay and had pictures (and a video) of her doing it to her 12 year old boyfriend. He has since been banned from seeing her and his parents informed. Of course she consented to the foreplay, and i am by no means blaming it solely on the boy (as they are both as immature and guilty as one another!) but for her sake they had to be banned from one another.

This family member is now alone-living as a child should be!!

Personally i dont understand why children today are even interested in sex-when i was 12 years old, the thought didnt honestly cross my mind-it got to as far as wondering who i was going to marry and eventually have children with-and that was it!

It was 15 when i first started thinking about sex-but nearly 17 before i actually did it. I am extremely glad i waited-as i personally decided that at 15 years of age that i wasnt ready.

However, i think societys views towards sex has changed and it is now more "acceptable" (or at least known) that younger children are having sex. Perhaps this is why other children think it is acceptable.There are also crimes of child porn on the increase-and news reports of this could encourage some children to be attracted to sex (for a dare, a "game" or just to get the attention of their parents etc).

I think that children today especialley-should be taught about the birds and the bees (so to speak!) and to be warned ealry on (from the age of 10 and upwards) about the dangers of sex-and what they should do and shouldnt do-as with all dangers.

Parents need to be more open and honest with their children. I think some parents think that if they warn their children about having sex when they are young-that they will somehow be more attracted to having it! I dont think this is true at all-what would you rather have? A child of yours that didnt know of the dangers and had sex young (with conseqences) or a child who knew all of the dangers and conseqences...and still did it?

Think about it! It shouldnt be a hard choice :) Too many parents i see around me, blame themselves when they shouldnt do-as a parents can only do their best and everyone makes mistakes! But prevention is the key-and then at least you know that that way you have tried your hardest to protect your child!

I donot have children myself as i am only 21, but this is how i would want my children to be raised. Sometimes ignorance is not bliss :)

Helen xx

Answer 7

i didnt start having sex untill i was 23 but iknow when i was a t school kidsas young as 12 were having sex and thats way to young

Answer 8

I do hope that you don't believe half of what you read here !!! Most of the question are BS. Almost half.. The other half are from people that are looking for serious answers or are from perverts. You have to decide which are real and which are from adults, posing as kids.

Good luck.

Answer 9

yes it scares me, i teach 4th grade and already at that age 10 years old they are talking about sex with boys scary. we had a girl in our town who got pregnant at 13 was 9 months prego and her 18 year bf hired someone to kill her so he wouldn't go to jail for statuatory rape. What's going on with our girls today? Why is it cool to be in those kind of relationships? How come no one is teaching them it's wrong?

Answer 10

IT is parents not being as active in their lives! Peer pressure and the lack of teaching kids consequences!