when a girl tells you she doesnt like you like that, just as friends, is there any shot to get her to like you as more than friends or has she already made up her mind that she doesnt wanna go out with you. Especially if she knows you like her alot.
2006-06-26 13:54:08 · 10 answers · asked by hiya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her a little space. Let her know that you're still around to talk to in case she needs a friend. Some girls will change their minds, some won't. For right know just treat her like all your other friends. pretend that you've accepted it and moved on. Sometimes when you back off and start thinking about other girls is when she'll come around. Sad but true.
2006-06-26 14:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by coolchick4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is stop letting her know or thinking you still like her...still be friends of course but make her think you have moved on this will enable her to be comfrotable around you and let you in more then before because she thinks she wont hurt you....Once your friendship grows and grows she might start liking you more but make sure space is given and also remember girls like the chase aswell.....i tend to love hanging out with the guys that are available to hang out whenever but aren't at my beck and call....
2006-06-26 14:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if she's not interested in anyone else, then there probably isn't a shot. But do you really want someone that would turn you down so easily? I think the old adage applies, a girl decides in the first 5 seconds....
2006-06-26 14:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by tinydancer42001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only once, in all my years of dating (and I'm 41) have i had romantic feelings develop for someone that I initially had friendship-only feelings for. It CAN happen, but for a lot of people it's not the norm...if she said she wants to be your friend however, that's an awesome thing. The chance for deeper feelings to develop in time is there, but even if not...friends are wonderful treasures beyond measure...and generally are in your life a lot longer than lovers.
2006-06-26 14:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She already told you how she feels, be a good friend and leave it at that. If she is interested later on, she will tell you. If that is too hard, then tell her how you feel and see what happens.
2006-06-26 14:00:55 · answer #5 · answered by auntb629 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she says i just wants to be friends or i don't like u that way then game over buddy stop trying because you have landed in the friend zone.
2006-06-26 14:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by Nohemy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her, keep being her friend. in time, she may have a change of heart. but in the meantime, do NOT close yourself off to other possibilities (ie: women) b/c it will only make you miserable.
2006-06-26 14:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by broadcast_girl79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time and keep letting her know how much you like her.
She may decide she likes you to later on.
2006-06-26 13:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by Marisa S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your problem was like mine but i didnt give up now he actually likes me but we arent dating because my friend stole him but i still secretly like him and he secretly likes me so call her up and tell her that ur the best thing uve ever had but hey ur kinda cute so shes gotta like u
2006-06-26 14:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by Lacey M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-06-26 13:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋