the guys r always talking about virgin girls, how many girls have lost the virginity with them. Why
2006-06-26 13:29:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
men don't want to think about other men (esp. if they met any of your other lovers in person) touching their woman. men have this sense of wanting to conquer a woman, and to be the first to do so (plus the best!). if you're not a virgin, then you should not go into detail about past sexual experiences and things you've done. it's alright to say i've done this or that, just don't tell him too many tiny details. if you're a virgin, sometimes men actually don't like that b/c it threatens them. some guys want a girl who's had experience and is more comfortable with sex (not over a dozen partners or stuff like that but just some). either way, men are all different and they basically just want to please you and make you feel good.
in another way, men are a dominant species. they like to brag about past experiences w/their friends to be better than one another -- it's all about competition. so while men may talk like this, they might not actually believe it deep down. i'm sure there may be "virgin hunters", but i assure that NOT ALL men are like that. wouldn't you rather be the first girl your man slept with? the only girl he's touched? the only girl he's tasted? think about it from their point of view.
2006-06-26 13:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by broadcast_girl79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am a male and i am in the marines. most guys like to be a girls first because they are sleezy assholes and they don't give a fu#k what emotional damage it will do to a female. They sit there and brag to their buddies about how many girls virginities they took and act like it is some type of contest, and someone like myself has morals and beliefs that I live by and think its disgusting. I am good looking and choose not too. And no, i am not talking about marines, it is almost every guy
2006-06-26 20:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by majeco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like to be a girls first because it seems more special and by being her first she will remember me for the rest of her life, and its nice to be remembered.
also im virgin so i would hope that making love to a virgin would be more special because we get to share that first time experience together.
2006-06-26 20:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by dtstuff9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many men fear an unfavorable comparison! If he's the first, he sets the standard.
2006-06-26 20:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by rb42redsuns 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋