whenever I have been on a date with a guy I always try to split the cost of the meal and if I have no money I let him know and I usually try to order something that is not too expensive, I feel if he always payed for everything I would feel like I ow him something,I meen sure sometimes its fine and all if they take you out I just feel some women take advantage of the situation. Like this guy told my friend he would buy her a purse and she called him to see when he has going to take her to get it...I was shocked cuz I would feel so enberrase to do that.
so my ? is how do girls do this, how do you get a guy to buy you something without feeling bad.In my relationship we half everything unless one of us cant at the moment wich is no big deal...but I could never just aske someone to get it for me without feeling bad.
2006-06-26 13:05:08 · 4 answers · asked by melinda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I personally like to be independent and will split the ticket or pay for my own items. It shows that you don't owe him anything and he'll have to come with his A-Plan if he wants something real with you. On the other hand, girls please do not make it a habit to pay for a man all the time. I have done that. Men who can not hold up their share (and don't feel so bad about it that they do something to change that--like get another job) and not who you want to be with.
2006-06-26 13:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by jandracu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i imagine it really is truer to assert all of society oppressed women persons consisting of the girls persons themselves because they knew no longer something else. and women folk persons were nevertheless incomes a lot less pay for doing an same pastime as men up till the Nineteen Sixties(?) a good number of persons had terrible lives in the previous, once you need to spend 12 hours an afternoon digging ditches for a pittance or giving beginning to fifteen little ones the perfect component you gave a rat's about is balloting for women persons's rights.
2016-11-15 07:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it as a prevridge (not sure the speling)
if a guy likes you, then he wont mind if he pays for the expensive meal (as long as he have the money)
even though it is good to sure the bill, some men likes to pay to pay for the whole meal, i would pay for the whole meal if i liked the person very much, or even small stuff when im with few female friends, i pay for what i can ^^
2006-06-26 13:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by Tai Chan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They should feel guilty, because it calls ambitions when you do that. Also this men won't really have any respects for you whatever he asks you you will have to give to him because he buys you everything. Woman not suppose to look hungry in front of Men that is a bad sign.
2006-06-26 13:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by josie j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋