Theres this guy, he and i used to go out, and i reallly want him back but he just kind of sees us on a friends with bennifits level, hes coming over on wednesday, and he wants me to give him head, first ive never done it bfore is it hard? 2nd should i do it considering were not going out but friends or would that make me a slut
2006-06-26 13:04:22 · 6 answers · asked by who? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no you shouldn't. if that all he wants from you then you should learn how to respect yourself and find a man that doesn't sexual favors from you and want to be around you for your personality
2006-06-26 13:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your both acceptable to the "friends with benefits" concept then the choice is yours but if you wanted something more and he doesnt then he is only after one thing from you and nothing more! Do you see him any other time than when he comes over for this? If not theres your answer... your letting him have his cake and eat it too!
2006-06-26 20:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by bristolsgal06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you got respect for yourself, i wouldnt do it. by doing the friends with benefits thing, its showing how little you value yourself to just let some guy use you. what if you end up pregnant, and i know you mentioned head, but im sure there will be sex later on too. where is he gonna go if you get pregnant. good luck.
2006-06-26 20:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by bdaddy20012000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you will gain anything in life by doing any kind of sexual activities before you are married. It will only cause problems and make you feel dirty. If you choose to do it, see my answer on how to do it on your other question.
2006-06-26 20:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by Proverbs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think people who have friends with bennifits are sluts so don it you only do that if you love someone
2006-06-26 20:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by sk8terchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, if you do it YOU ARE A SLUT.
Sorry, but hes obviously using you.
Hope i helped.
2006-06-26 20:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by jameswilliamlong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋