there is this guy i like and he is ok. right? soo then .. like.. school is over for summer vacation.. so i told him i was going to miss him and that i loved him mmore then a friend and he told me the same thing.. he sed .. i love y0oh seing ur cute smile and playing basketball with you everyday .. (( we play basketball together all the time )) then today i hear that him and this girl megan that they say is a sl** kisses him and that they were all over each other! but he is not the type of person to do that and i cannot get over him! hesz stuck in my HEART <33 help me 0ut.. i wanna taslk to him but i dont no what to say help me OUT PLEASEEE!
2006-06-26 12:31:28 · 17 answers · asked by Sexy Pookie ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The direct approach.
2006-06-26 12:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention how old you guys are in this. You let him know how you felt, that you loved him more than a friend and he said the same thing. I would approach him and ask him if he and megan were kissing. Be prepared to hear him out. If he starts going on about you showing him more than Megan, then he's not as nice as you thought he was and you need to kick him to the curb ASAP.
2006-06-26 19:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, you may not like what you hear, but I am not here to make people like me. I want to help you out here. GIRL YOU NEED TO RUN, this guy is trouble, you say he has another female he is involved with? He just wants some side dish to go with the main dish and you are better than to be someone's side dish. Most women tend to blame other women but in this case it's clearly his fault. OPEN YOUR EYES, and see the truth, STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR HIM, THE GUY IS A JERK. Don't waste your time on a guy like him. Something better is waiting for you. Please consider this and don't get your heart broken by a jerk. Trust me been there, done that. I may have never met you but I care about you. Good luck
2006-06-26 20:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by Hella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's been seen with someone else, make sure that it's true. Unless you have seen it first hand then you are going by hearsay. This other girl may well be trying to move in on him. And how many guys do you know who put up a fight when someone is coming on to them?? Honestly.... If you really want him, go after him. Tell him how you feel. He won't know till you say something. And if he's not for you...I'm sure there will be plenty of other nice guys standing in line for you.
2006-06-26 19:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by L. S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him right out, if you say that you are as interested in me as i am in you then how can you just all this sudden be all over some one else? find out the truth before you become one of the girls he plays on, plus i have to say using the love word is a little strong for you to use, at your age i am sure you have some time still before you realy know what love is. be careful, but mostly just make him tell you the truth so that you dont waste time on him.
2006-06-26 19:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u need to do is talk to him face to face ask him is it true and if it is try to work it out and be freinds ask him sayi have to taalk to u about sumthing its very important then start a conversation like what he been doing then say
what i had to talk to u about was that i heard you kissed this girl and yall was all ova each is it true r not then ask what will yall do in the furture like should yall be friends r whateva r u could just write him a note a bout ur true feelinga
2006-06-26 19:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by $$Mrs.Harvey$$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first make sure that whoever told he was making out with a slut is true
someone may just be pulling you r leg
and if he really liked you or loved you he would have kept in touch and never have kissed another guy
this just proves that he doesn't love you if what you heard is true
stay away from him
2006-06-26 19:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by citygirl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all u need to find out wether it's true or not that megan kissed him,if it is true just ask him jokingly "hey,whats up with u and megan?"
2006-06-26 19:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and ask him why he said that? and also, was that a reliable source who gave u that info? dont worry about somethin that didnt really happen, or maybe he is a jerk and was with megan before he said he loved you, hopefully u can get some answers straight before u comfront him! good luck! hopefully it helped!
2006-06-26 19:36:39 · answer #9 · answered by catie g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so dont believe every thing that u hear...n if ur really into him invite him ova .... go 2 tha park n play basketball... let him kno how u really feel .... surely everything will work out 4 u .... good luck!!
2006-06-26 19:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by madly in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋