Everything is about sex these days but it doesn't interest me, well i don't want it. Does this make me weird? (Doesn't mean i'm not attrected to men).
2006-06-26 12:26:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nah. You shouldn't be interested as much as society makes you feel like you should.
Not everything is about sex. That's the bottom line. If someone thinks that, well, they're also the people who think that Paris Hilton is the coolest person alive! Media tells people what to think and what to like, and they just do it like good little lemmings.
You're just not a lemming! Congrats!
If you've never had sex, that's even moreso okay. You should be waiting for the best person ever and when it feels right, you'll just do it.
I don't think it's weird at all. I have a boyfriend of over a year and a half, and our relationship isn't overrun by our sex drive. It's not that important compared to so many other alternatives that make life enjoyable.
2006-06-26 12:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by Alicia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it will be some issues and it would want to change once you commence moving into relationships or it would want to no longer, yet no, there is not any longer something incorrect with it. it really is not any longer favourite through society's criteria, yet i do not imagine society as an finished is favourite in any respect, so enable's no longer difficulty about that. also, it really is so, so tremendous to work out a civilized guy on the following in the sea of psychopaths. subtle, with perfect grammar and manners - good god! Please only save being precisely what you're. you'll discover the female for you sometime and make her more than chuffed, sex or no sex. good success!
2016-11-15 07:26:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, everyone else always seems to enjoy sugar coating their answers, but the reality is yes it is slightly weird not to like sex at all. Sex is a normal part of a healthy relationship and is an important part of being with someone. Few relationships last forever when there is no sex involved unless the people are both really old(we're talking retirement home age here).
So you really should try to find out what it that you don't like about sex and more importantly try to find out what you do enjoy. You may just not enjoy it because you haven't found the right person yet or they haven't done the right things. But either way, it's not normal to not want to have sex at all.
2006-06-26 12:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by Xeno 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO you are not weird, i feel the same sometimes. Sex is very overrated, the media and society relates everything to sex these days and i wish people realised there is more to life than sex. However when you are with someone special you will enjoy it cos its so much more than just sex.
2006-06-26 12:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it does not make you 'Weired.' It makes you a human being who fits somewhere on the spectrum of human sexuality.
A lot of chemical and psychological reasons could account for you 'asexuality,' and if you want to try to change this 'state,' then you have the choice to attempt to.
Clearly, this is not a 'problem' for you, but it could become one should you find a partner.
It's on the inside of a relationship where your asexuality could become an issue between you, and a potentially damaging one.
Best of luck.
Sash.
2006-06-26 12:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You're not weird. If you find someone who feels the same way, you can probably have a great life together. Just don't pretend to like it to make someone happy. In the end, you'll both be unhappy.
2006-06-26 12:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think to ask the question: yes.
We have huge organ systems devoted to sex. They get a blood/nerve supply that rivals the kidnies and liver.
So, sorta, yes, you've been put on this plannet to reproduce, and if you don't feel this urge at all.... and you're worried enough to ask. Then yes, I'd say you'd admit you're slightly "weird", right?
2006-06-26 12:47:01 · answer #7 · answered by dockyortho 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that you are weird at all. It's like everything else in life if it is constently in your face it becomes less exciting. You have to find your own way of making it appealing to yourself.
2006-06-26 12:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by i.needitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be the same then I found somone that I love and now it does interest me but not as much as being with this persin does.
2006-06-26 13:36:15 · answer #9 · answered by jamesiewaimsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not in the slightest...
Just that guys would be turned off by it, for the most part..
[EDIT] Should just mention that I LOVE sex... :D Can't get enough...
2006-06-26 12:29:24 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋