Me and my girlfriend broke up about 2 weeks ago and we have said to each other that we both still have feelings for each other. We broke up because we argued almost everyday about some of the dumbest things. Actually when we broke up she said we need to take a break. We still talk everyday and hang out and it basically feels the same. So its basically we're just friends. She often asks me if ive found "it" yet which is basically her way of asking do you wanna be with me again and i usually say "yea but i don't know if it'll work" or something to that degree and she usually says that she doesn't know . She still does stuff that bothers me but now i can't get mad at it because we broke up like talking to my best friends alot. But i can't bring it up with her because we don't go out anymore. What i'm trying to get at is, should i try to get back with her or get over her? I know this is confusing but i would really appreciate the help.
2006-06-26 12:08:35 · 10 answers · asked by farside234 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try talking to her about the stuff that bothers you about her. If she is willing to change it then you should. If she cant then just get over her.
2006-06-26 12:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by Kayla Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Sounds like me and my ex boyfriend. I went out with him for like 3 months. And we broke up in dec. Well I still have feelings for him and he says he still has feelings for me. We broke up because of the same reason. We argued almost everyday about the little things that meant really nothing.
So..I would say give it another shot. This time give it your all in the relationship. If my ex didnt have a girlfriend I would be back with him right now. But I just have extremely bad timing. lol.
Dont give up if you still have feelings. Trust me. Its extremely hard and you will regret it sooner or later.
If you need any more help just email me...Xo_Adore_You_5606_oX@yahoo.com
2006-06-26 19:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by xo_adore_you_5606_ox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we came across with a person that feel comfortable to be with as a friend but not as a lover.Maybe both of u can be a really good friends but when it comes to love relationship u guys probably can't fit into each other.Another thing is,if both of u guys can understand each other,then there'll be not much arguments.A relationship without understanding each other won't work.
2006-06-26 19:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha...this happened to me and my bf...we broke up...but we got back together...we were fighting over really dumb things too..it all comes from spending to much time together...give eachother a lil space..hang out with your friends and encourage her to do the same..after u guys spend a few days apart you will realize that you really do like eachother and you will spend more time appreciating eachother rather then arguing..try it out..its worth the shot..Good Luck ! relationships can be tricky...
"The Best Way Out is Always Through."
2006-06-26 19:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by kelkel0514 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one who can answer this ?. You need to look deep in your heart and try and decide if you love her or not, If you do then you need to start a new relationship or you don't love her then you need to let her go and go on with your life.
2006-06-26 19:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by HastyBabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you both- how long have u been together- you sound young-- try dating other people- its only been 2 weeks since ur separation- thats not long enough to step back and really anaylize things- dont settle for fear of loneliness- its a big world
2006-06-26 19:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by fringefan1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best answer i can give you is that love is hard trust me it is but maybe you should avoid the stupid little problems if the things areso dumb then let things go don't argue or maybe if she like me maybe she just other issues and she wants you to ask her try that
2006-06-26 19:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by *stars* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Nothing has changed. She was driving you nuts, she is driving you nuts now, and she will always drive you nuts. Life is too short. Find someone who doesn't drive you nuts.
And stop doing messy breakups. Swift, clean, and permanent.
2006-06-26 19:12:46 · answer #8 · answered by Farly the Seer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it didn't work then, it won't work now. Move on. You're not right for each other.
2006-06-26 19:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill her, kidding. tooo long story please make it short.
2006-06-26 19:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by CoolGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋