2006-06-26 12:01:31 · 40 answers · asked by joey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are determined to get to know a girl before physically getting to know her, then you will control your urge to merge and focus on who she is and what her interests are non-sexually.
2006-06-26 12:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Pants is just 'pants,' very limiting, and once you have seen one pair, you have pretty much seen them all. Oh, yes, I know what the pants contain. The decoration might be different, but it's still the same.
On the other hand, the girl / woman ...getting to know the person can be a fascinating journey where the scenery is rarely the same ~ and unlike the contents of pants ~ the decorating and decorations of the persons are invariably very different.
Regards.
Sash.
2006-06-26 12:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but the guy has to want to. However, it is a ugly thing to make someone think you want to know them when all you want is to get in their pants. I told a guy once just ask me can you ---- me so I can tell you no and get it over with. If you try this approach you might get a yes and end up in a "Fatal Attraction" situation. You weigh the odds. Personally I think sex should be left for marriage and marriage should be between two people who understand that there is more to it then sex. Ask God what he thinks since he made people and sex.
2006-06-26 12:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should they? Come on, lets get real here. The physical attraction that exists between men and women is primarily there to serve a purpose - so we procreate.
Modern humans are the ones who have invented the 'morals' that go with this very basic urge.
So although it offends our sensibilities (ys, I am offended that some men are not even clever enough to prentend they didn't first start talking to me just so they could jump my bones) it's not what we were designed for.
Annoying but true.
2006-07-02 12:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by Bajan Deane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have to admit that my mind and eyes can wander when I meet a girl I like but I'm ok with it if nothing happens. I like to know quite a bit about a woman before I get into bed with them...and I mean a lot more than her favourite position.
2006-07-03 12:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've gotten to know a lot of girl's but I always want to get in their pants! So answer is Nope!
http://www.total-knowledge.com/~willyblues/
2006-06-26 12:06:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea when i met my g/f we wer the bestest of friends i got to kno her like the palm of my hand usually relationships that start of just like that dont work out theyr stronger if ther was a friendship first but yea some guys do want to get to kno girls before getting in there pants if thats what you really wanna kno
2006-06-26 12:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by daysonr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should, instead of just thinking about u physically wise they should get to know them until u can trust them & know their not any danger to the inside of your pants!
2006-06-26 12:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with my gf now. when we first met i got to know her and i wanted to get in her pants (cuz im a guy) but i didnt until 3 and a half months after we started dating. and im glad i did.
2006-06-26 12:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I think you can coming from a 21/m That is the last thing on my mind before we get to know each other
2006-06-26 12:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by brian.taylor2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋