I have been trying to get a hold of my boyfriend all day. His phone number has been temporarily disconnected. He has mild depression and I want to make sure he is okay. I have not gone to his house before, he lives with some other guys and I don't want to be rude. Is that an okay thing to do?
2006-06-26 11:52:24 · 11 answers · asked by yadirajosie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only rude if he is cheating
But if nothing is going on the show up maybe he has been busy
2006-06-26 12:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by Layla 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL~ @ NIck... You have never been to your boyfriend's house... I won't touch that. But back to your question. I think that it is very rude to just go over to someone's house without being invited. He must have a reason for not being available. What if you go over there and he has company... how would you react? Not saying that he is seeing someone else... but don't let him make you out to be the bad guy. If he wanted to be in touch with you he would have called you. He know that his phone is "temporarily disconnected". Go out and have some fun. Don't you go in a minor depressed state.
2006-06-26 19:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have true concern for him, go now! But seriously, its not rude to go check up on him. You might want to be careful how you phrase it when you get there so he doesn't see himself as being under the microscope because depression can warp your mind (I've been there). Just pop in and say hello, something like you were out and wanted to see if he wanted to go to dinner with you or something.
2006-06-26 18:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not, you wouldn't do that to anyone else, so don't do it to him. Just hope that he gets his phone up and running. Although that could just be some excuse, phones don't often go out, these days.
2006-06-26 18:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! You can go to his house unexpected. When you come he is going to be happy and suprised.... It will take your relationship to the next level.
2006-06-26 18:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that's it's so rude, but if someone is over there, you will be very upset and hurt.
2006-06-26 18:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by FLINT, MI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, because you have no other way to know if he's okay. go ahead- its normal for people who cares.
2006-06-26 19:01:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well---I know what it meant when my (now) ex husband wouldn't answer his cell phone....
2006-06-26 18:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure go over!
2006-06-26 18:55:34 · answer #9 · answered by telis_gr1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long you guys have been dating.
2006-06-26 18:55:52 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋