Ladies, you know how you ask your man to do something and he always seems to come up with some stupid excuse as to why he can't or that somebody else should do it? Why do they always do this?! It makes me so mad!!!
2006-06-26 11:45:15 · 9 answers · asked by janelly_chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok how about a guy answer this question? We are a kid in a grown up body. I do everything my fiance asks me to do...she just needs to have it written down...with each task itemized or else I'll forget. We just need someone constantly looking over our shoulders but more than that, I think all of us men need some sort of reward for doing a task. I know all your ladies are saying "they should just do it" but I think men are all about consequences, and its not about the negative consequences that worry or gives us initiative, its the positives. We need positive reinforcement. Give your guy a set of tasks and let him know what his reward is going to be for completing those tasks, and I promise you...he will get them done in a surprisingly timely manner~!
2006-06-26 11:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by yogurtsoju 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's from years of training, of ignoring our mothers. Who are constantly, saying do this, do that. So eventually, it goes in one ear and out the other.
You ladies, need to find a different technique to use, to get us to do things for you.
Remember, you have what we want, and it's in your hands.
You can get so much more with honey, than vinegar.
So use your feminine wiles, to get him to do things, without him even knowing what is happening to him. A kiss and a cuddle, will do wonders, over any nagging you might do. We were trained from birth to ignore nagging.
2006-06-26 18:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't want to do what you asked them to do. It's simple, realy.....you use the word ask as demand...or not asking them to do something, if you were they could say no and not do it and it would be Ok. You are demanding that they do something for you, jump through some hoop to make you happy for five minutes....then you will have them do it again and again and again.
2006-06-26 18:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men can be like kids sometimes..if you ask them to do it they will do the oppostie..if you tell them to do something they will not do it...but i guess not all men are like this theres only the few that will do what you ask..but if you go on and on at them and nag. be sure they wont do a dam thing..
2006-06-26 18:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because their brain is in their pants. when they sit down they can not think. Try asking when he is standing up. Or do like I do just do it yourself or else it will never get done.
2006-06-26 18:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't like to be told or reminded to do something. They like to be the one that takes the initiative to do / fix something.
I don't understand it either. To them, it's no big deal. To us, it's the world.
2006-06-26 18:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by dubbledee71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DON'T DO THAT...I WOULDN'T MAKE YOU MAD...I WOULD MAKE YOU SMILE EAR TO EAR 24/7/365....
2006-06-26 20:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by DRE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because boys are boys have they ever listen to good sense
2006-06-26 18:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are men!!
2006-06-26 18:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by Beccygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋