I met a guy over the internet, been talking to him for 22 days straight but we have not met face to face yet. Should I tell him how I feel?
2006-06-26 11:38:59 · 37 answers · asked by Kristine S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ye why not you have nothing to lose
2006-06-26 11:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by elli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go slow.Most of the time things are not as they appear.Most people show there better side over the Internet.I think 22 days is a very short time.Keep talking and take it as easy as possible.It's best to express your feelings after you have met the person in real.
2006-06-26 11:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by telis_gr1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what type of guy u r talkin 2 if u think if u express ur feelings 2 him that he will b okay with expressing dem back then hey go 4 it but if u have doubt about the situation u should ask him about his pervious relationship and how did they go along and if he exprees his true feelings 2 his last gurl and when does he think its da right time 2 express a person feelings u know just questions in dat area so u can kind of have an ideal about how he is feelin
2006-06-26 11:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by leesag07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't met so what is it that your feel? Please don't tell me you love him. First things first. You have to meet him and then see how things go. I would wait on telling him anything. I've met two guys on line and they were great but then i met then person to person and girl things changed quickly. They didn't look like the pics and in person you can learn a lot more then by e-mails and phone calls. Best of luck.
2006-06-26 11:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by dodgergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try and find somebody off the net. I don't think you can truly understand a person unless you are face to face. It is probably some 50 year old guy who is married and in a mid-life crises...
2006-06-26 11:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by Antonio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta be careful with people on the net. If you do decide to meet him, make sure it's in a well populated place. Other than that just go for it I mean what's the worst that could happen? You could wind up talking online forever or if he doesn't wanna meet up, you can move on.
2006-06-26 11:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by mandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you feel? i hope you dont think you love this guy or want to be with him. talking for a couple of hours a day for 22 days straight doesnt mean you ttotally know this guy. you dont know him. dont tell him how you feel. you dont know who you are chatting with, because you are talking to him you are chatting with him. i think you should do a back ground check on him.and see what you find out about him before you take the next step to meet him. find out about him before you meet him, he might be older than you think or in jail right now(people in jail have access to the internet)he might be a muderer or a rapist, find out before you get hurt.
2006-06-26 11:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sharing your feeling is not wrong but within a 22 days means you have to think.... take some time to understand him.
i am sure nowadays no one is true to others.
without knowing him how will you trust him???
my request never open your heart to unknown guys or else gals.
Never judge the people by there way of talking.
one is true to their own heart..then how they will true to uuu???
never under estimate and never over estimate ...
Take care.
2006-06-26 11:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would suggest meeting face to face and getting to know each other better before telling him how you feel.
2006-06-26 11:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, as long as you are positive about the way you feel and you feel like he can handle it. SOmetimes the "feeling" talk too soon can scare guys away. But you will know that by the vibes you get...Good Luck!
2006-06-26 11:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should tell him how you feel. if you havent met,. then there could be a possiblity that hes lying about soem stuff. he might be a way older guy than you or even worse, a younger guy, say like 15 years old....
2006-06-26 11:41:52 · answer #11 · answered by ~jervi mervi~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋