im 15 and she is 11 and we both like each other
2006-06-26 11:14:17 · 19 answers · asked by Hurricane63 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was 11 once, so I can tell you that crushing on a 15 year old guy is way normal. But to be honest with I don't think I would of be able to handle a real relationship with a 15 year old when I was 11. I don't know you and I and I don't know her, I do know that most people would that you where abnormal guy just try to get with a girl you figured was easy. I'm not saying you are; I’m just saying that's what most people will think.
I think if you really cared for her that you would never ever make her do anything she wasn't ready for, that you might be ready for. You don't want her to have to cut her childhood short or that will send you to jail. And even if she says, she is ready, she's not no one is ready at 11, 12, 13, 14, or even 15 years old, she will be just trying to please you. So, as long as her parents are okay with this and you respect her and understand she shouldn’t be ready for anything more than kissing for years to come, than you're good. I think that a lot people forget that two people can love and care about each other for years with out having sex. And that two people can connect with each other and be different not just in age and still find common ground.
I do recommend you to take things slow with her, to respect her, and to remember that she may seem older to you in a lot of ways, but she and you are both just children learning and growing, and change. Be a friend to her first and a boyfriend second. Also, remember that not everyone is going to approve of this relationship if it's more than friendship, that's going to be very hard even too much for you and her to deal with. You might want to think about being friends for now and more than friends when she’s older. If it’s meant to be it will be, waiting might suck but it also might me the best thing for you both.
2006-06-26 11:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by BabeLive98 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Its considered more normal when both are over the age of 18. The older you are the less that makes a difference. I do not encourage you to continue this relationship, she is only 11 and you are 15- that is definately a huge difference in maturity. I hope you decide to do the right thing. Take care.
2006-06-26 18:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by missesbean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is too big an age difference. It would be an OK difference if you both were 5 years older, but since you aren't, just be friends. Really that's probably what everyone should do until they are at least 17 years old, just be friends with each other and then if they both decide to get more serious go ahead.
2006-06-26 18:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know the funny thing is that the older u get the less age matters. for example, right now if u were to say to me 11 and 15, i really wouldnt think its a good idea. However, if u were to say 30 and 34, i would think its perfectly fine. i gues what im trying to say is that its probably not a good idea to go out and maybe u could look for someone at least within 2 years of u. good luck!
2006-06-26 18:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by rjekqlw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're both too young to be "going out".
Don't even think of a 4 year age difference until you're both over 21.
And a 15/11 is not normal, is unhealthy and is predatory. If it were my daughter, I would have a restrianing order placed against you.
2006-06-26 18:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by pknutson_sws 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An 11 year old is still a child. A CHILD, okay? There isn't even anything there to physically be attracted to. What the hell, man?
Plus, you're 15 right? What would your friends think? You'll be a social pariah.
2006-06-27 13:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
25 and 21, not such a big deal.
15 and 11 - HUGE DIFFERENCE in where you are in life experience and maturity. I can't imagine her parents would approve. You can be friends and I would leave it at that. This girl might not have even hit puberty yet, and your hormones are probably raging.
BAD idea...just stay friends!
2006-06-26 18:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years is a normal age differenc but not in ur situation. Ur way too old for her. Shes not even a teenager yet gosh and shes way to young and probably immature to have a relationahip.. Eww ur like in highschool and shes probably in 5th grade.. God boy get a girl ur old age.
2006-06-26 18:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age YES!!!!!
once your 18 age isnt a big deal as long as your partner is over 18 as well.
2006-06-26 18:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on parents approval. It's a hard call becuase I do not know the maturity level of either one of you.
2006-06-26 18:16:40 · answer #10 · answered by Dream Bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋