I met a girl I liked a lot at the end of the semester, that was about six weeks ago. I wanted to ask her out so badly, but never did :( I think about her everyday. While we were talking I remember she told me where she worked. Would it be weird to contact her now, even this late? My interest in her is really high :)
2006-06-26 11:00:50 · 26 answers · asked by Matty_Who? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stroll by her job when her shift is over and say hi i was in the neighborhood and was wondering if you want to go out
2006-06-26 11:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is too late. If you know where she works, and it is a place you would go to, then walk in and see if she is there -- then you can pull the "hey, i forgot you said you worked here". otherwise, do you have an email or cell number? cause then I would contact her that way. No matter what, don't ask her out on a date right away... talk to her for a while... maybe say "hey, you wanna hang out tomorrow?" or something like that. good luck! don't be nervous!
2006-06-26 18:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by blink182fan117 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not, if a guy did that to me, I would be very flattered. I would think it was cute. If she had an interest in you in first place than she would be very happy and flattered, and would probably go out with you.
Now with that said, keep in mind that she maybe seeing someone, or she may not be interested in you that way.
So, just laugh if off if it doesn't go your way, and remember doing something is always better than doing thing. Good luck to you, I hope it goes your way. (Oh, if she is seeing someone, I keep my figures cross that he is a jerk.)
2006-06-26 18:15:43 · answer #3 · answered by BabeLive98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing you learn in life is simply that trying isnt what hurts.Even the outcome at times is less painful than never trying.
Think about it like this,"What If". What if this is the one?
What if she feels the same? What if this is the single entity that helps shape your future and you hers?
The question should not be "should you even try' but rather are you willing to carry the "what if" with you for the rest of your life?
2006-06-26 18:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by bageerafang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go right ahead.
just stop by and say hi, you never know where things can go from there. maybe you can start a conversation, and can ask her out.
plus, if you dont, you will always wonder about what could have been and never know. that might be worse for you in the long run.
if anything you can at least have closure on the whole deal. good luck!
2006-06-26 18:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by LiLiTh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you like the girl so much, go for it. Who knows, maybe she has been thinking about you this whole time too. If she is someone special, you should not let her get away. She might be the one for you. If she's not, then it's not bad, at least you gave it a try. Good luck. I hope you find her. :-)
2006-06-26 18:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by Nieds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, what's holding you back? Fear of rejection? So what? You've been told< "No," ten thousand times before now, right? Bu parents, friends and a host of other people. Right? You'll never know unless you ask. Go for it!!!
2006-06-26 18:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by quietwalker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What took you so long? It won't be weird if you went to her job and exchange numbers. Make it nice short and sweet you don't wont her to get in trouble at her job place or think you were stalkish.
2006-06-26 18:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If you're really intersted in her I think you should do it. Just don't come on too strong because you don't want to freak her out. Maybe just stop in and say hi.
2006-06-26 18:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till next year
2006-06-26 18:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by ******12th grade** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋