Have you ever been infatuated by your boss?

Question

Although he was mean to me and I quite my job becuase of this, I can't stop thinking about him. Business is not doing well at all and I feel just terrible for him. The company was going down hill before I left. He is about 48 and I'm 27. I know he thought I was attractive but don't know if he would be interested in me as something more than an x-employee. I know he's a nice man but since business was not going well, he would get his frustration & take it out on me. I was not able to put up with that. What can I do to make him understand that I care about him and want to be there for him. I have not spoken to him since I left that job. I worked for him for 9 months and have been at my new job for 6 months.
I did not give my two weeks notice because at the time I was very upset with him.
Do you think this is just crazy or should I persue something with this man, and how should I go about it?

Answer 1

Let's see. In work, you usually have to put up professional appearances. So, I would say don't go there. If your ex-boss cannot be professional with you at work..what makes you think he will be a nice guy outside of work?

What you just described..is a case of displacement..or kicking the dog once you get home. He was frustrated..so he took it out on you..and you yourself said you couldn't take it. I don't think this would bode well for a real relationship. Think about it.

Also, I think you may just be feeling sorry for the guy..its true businesses can go bad...but thats life. Many businesses fail..and he probably just hurt his business ...by treating you badly and hence..you leaving...

Let go...and try to enjoy your new job.