so yeah i would consider myself to be overweight, i am trying to do something about it which i consider great, but i really am caught up about it and am single and think am gonna be alone forever lol i sound so sad but it's true - opinions please xx
2006-06-26 10:48:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just remember that 95% of people who lose weight gain it back. If you are loosing weight to get a man, chances are you will gain it back after you get one. (Then possibly face even more pain if the guy is a jerk & dumps you because of it) In my humble opinion, you're better off finding a guy who excepts your present body weight...(Yes there are lots of men who don't mind a big booty). I'm not saying forget losing weight, it is much healthier to be normal body weight, just don't loose it for the wrong reasons.
2006-06-26 10:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i also feel overweight and i'm going on the weightwatchers diet tomoro. I've been on it before and lost hundreds and felt great but put it all on again so this time im going to need to keep it off. Your confidence goes way up you feel more sexier and can have more choice with your clothes. That's just the confidence boost you need, even that first wee bit makes so much difference!
2006-06-26 17:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by raven.mad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dieted all my life. I have went from 140lbs to 250 lbs. I am now 215lbs and 5ft7. For my height I don't look fat, but to me it don't matter. What should matter is how you look and feel about yourself. Not of what you think others feel. Once you have found your weight you are happy at then stay there. Men are not attracted to how much you weigh, they are attracted to you and who you are as a person. Show some spunk and confidence. Allot of men like and will look at a woman who shows self-confidence. I have never had a problem.
2006-06-26 17:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to do is work on your attitude. If you don't like yourself, it's hard for others to like you, too. You are so much more than just your weight. Focus on who you are, and what you can bring to a relationship. When you start realizing your self worth, others will, too. (By the way, there are those who think a little meat on the bones is a good thing!)
2006-06-26 17:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by SL_SF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose the weight. Don't look for an easy way to lose it, realize you're going to have to suffer. You're going to suffer anyway, either by being to fat, or by being hungry until you lose the weight. Don't eat ANY bread, cereal, potatoes, candy, just eat meat and a little fruit, and be sure you're ALWAYS hungry. You'll really love yourself for it.
It's GREAT being thin!
2006-06-26 17:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by kimmyisahotbabe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am chunky and I have a wonderful guy that likes me and cares about me more than anything. You will find someone, dont give up because I didnt. There are tons of guys out there that like a little meat on a girls bones. Good Luck and dont lose your hope or faith.
2006-06-26 17:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it for yourself - You'll feel more confident in yourself then and maybe won't be single for much longer. Chances are you are single not because of your weight, but because of your confidence.
PS- It is great!
2006-06-26 17:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by fruitnroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose the weight then send my a private messgae
2006-06-26 17:51:04 · answer #8 · answered by beer_pharts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One sentence is all u need for an answer babe, have faith in yourself, because beauty is in the eye of the beholder
2006-06-27 02:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fat girls have as much fun as thinner ones... It is all a matter of mental preparedness...
Stop thinking of your weight as hurdle... Use your personality... ;)
Besides a lot of guy like larger girls... :D
2006-06-26 17:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋