Me and a guy who have been flirting with eachother for months finally slept together on saturday night, we get on really well and talked and admitted we'd liked each other for a while, I texted him after when I got home to say thanks for a good night and he texted me back saying he had too and that we will see each other soon, when should I expect him to call or text? He is very shy, Should I contact him?
2006-06-26 10:40:25 · 16 answers · asked by Yoyo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if it was me i would wait a few days to see and if not send a message just sayin about meeting up again becuase if you like him you don't want to let him go, if he's shy you just need to help him along. If you like him go for it...life's to short!
2006-06-26 10:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by raven.mad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so this guy knows 100% that you like him now as you have told him.
Please don't call him! Just because men (certainly in my opinion/experience) seem to HATE it when a girl makes the first move. Most men like the chase and, like lions, how boring would life be for a lion if the zebra stands there right infront of it saying "look i'm here, don't chase me."
And being shy doesn't make as much difference as you may think. Wait for him, and if he doesnt text, don't text him. You may regret doing that.
Hope it works out ok for you!
2006-06-26 17:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call him. Don't play stupid games. But only call him once. Then the ball is in his court to call you back if he's not there. But call with a reason.
Did you decide to see eachother again? Call him to make a date. Don't make a dumb excuse to call him -guys aren't as dumb as we think, he'll see through it. Call, be honest, tell him you'd like to go out again and try to make a date. If plans are not firm, then make sure you ask if you should call him again or if he will call you.
If he says he will call you, don't call him back until he does.
Game playing is silly.
2006-06-26 17:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by magicpixie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait maybe 2-3 days and then if he doesn't call just call him. Just say hey what's up? or just talk to him and maybe about getting together again.
2006-06-26 17:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by ilovehayden4evr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a few days, or maybe a week. He might call, if he doesnt I would contact him. If he doesnt answer, leave a message. If he doesnt return any messages, then you were just a booty call. Good Luck
2006-06-26 17:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him you idiot especailly if he is shy.
Why is it girls think the guy must do it... He is probably thinking you think he was crap and dont want to see him again
Who cares who calls who. He may not be trying to be seen as too keen as friends told him rubbish about rules
2006-06-26 17:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a week or so... And see if he contacts you...
If he doesn't send one saying "just a quick hi, to see how you are doing"
2006-06-26 17:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got what he needed. Fine job. You did a great service to him. can I text you now?
2006-06-26 17:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Anyways wait a day or two and, if he doesnt call you should call
2006-06-26 17:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its been more than a few days give him a call
2006-06-26 17:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋