I need you to do this honestly. This girl is really hot. I have known her for 2 years and I only want to ask her out. I am going to a different school next year and she is not. She is the daughter of a family friend. we are like eachother's best friend and I know our friendship really means a lot to both of us. Now that you have taken the time to read this, If you were her and I asked you out,..... What would you say?
2006-06-26 10:34:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey youll never know until you ask her
2006-06-26 10:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I wonder why you specifically stated that you "only want to ask her out?" If I was your best friend, I would be thrilled to go out with you. Friendship can be the beginning of a lovely romantic relationship. And, since we've known each other for 2yrs already, we must have a very good understanding of each other, in such a way that we would never do anything to purposely hurt the other, and that we would still value each other whatever happens. Of course, there will be awkward moments, before a relationship begins or when it ends (if it ends), but this is all part of the "game", whether we started out as friends or not. Don't worry too much. Take the risk. Otherwise, you'll always wonder, "What if?" Wouldn't it be great if it worked out and you have your "lover" to be your best friend as well... your soulmate? I know of a guy who had gotten married and divorced many times, because he always compared the women in his life to his "best friend." Until finally, at an old age, when they were both unengaged, that's when he got the nerve to "spill the beans" and reveal his true feelings to her, which she in reality shared with him too! Today, they are living happily together, but think of all those wasted years! Wasn't it such a shame?
2006-06-29 05:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her how you feel. However you should be aware that she might not feel the same way for you. If she doesn't this could be awkward since she is your best friend and the daughter of a family friend who you may see often. Also, it is very hard to go out with someone, break up and still be friends, especially if you aren't both in agreement that you should break up. Saying that you will remain friends is way easier than doing it, it will take some effort from both to ensure that you remain friends. The first way to ensure that you continue to be friends is during the relationship always treat her the way you would want your best friend to be treated by another guy - respectfully and genuinely. Good luck!
2006-06-26 18:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by loudmouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one it would depend on how far away this other school is. If it were in another state to where she wouldn't see you for an extended period of time I'm not so sure she'd say yes. However you've known her for quite some time and you're best friends. I would give it a shot. but mention to her that you don't want to jeopardize the friendship if anything goes bad in the relationship
2006-06-26 17:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a 50/50. I would say you should go for it. You won't know unless you try. You may regret it if you don't. You know she likes you as a best friend so obviously likes you and respects you as a person. I don't know if she's attracted to you in that way or if she wants to date anyone right now. Those are some factors you should think about. But I would go for it. The worst that can happen is that it's awkward for a little while.
2006-06-26 17:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now if I was her I probably say no. The reason she would no would be because she may think of you as just a friend. Not some one she would want to be going out with. But this dose not mean you should not. This is just a possibility
2006-06-26 17:42:38 · answer #6 · answered by icefiregal123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say yes. It might be hard to keep a relationship when you guys aren't going to the same school anymore, but I think it would be worth it. I think that you should go for it! Good Luck!
2006-06-26 17:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by loveismagic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i was in her shoes, i would probably say yes, and it would be a summer thing because i don't know whether the relationship will continue with both of you being in different schools. but if you really like her, do share your feelings and you can both decide what to do with them from there!
2006-06-26 17:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel. Don't ask her out or anything like that just tell her wants in your heart. Then see what her reaction is... if she feels the same then you can go ahead and ask her out. If not you don't have the pressure of possibly dating. If you ask her out it will put the pressure on her that there is the possiblity of her hurting your feelings. Don't give her that pressure.
2006-06-26 17:41:41 · answer #9 · answered by Gen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yeah there is no reason she should say no. she should totally give you a chance. even if she doesn't think there's anything between you there maybe ther is so go ahead and ask her out your too close to get to much damage if she says no. good luck.
2006-06-26 17:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by fairy princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes but would make sure no matter what happens in the relationship, we never loose our friendship.
2006-06-26 17:41:09 · answer #11 · answered by KCHottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋