I love her, I know she loved me. How do I find out if she stilll does, bcause I still do, alot. I miss her...?

Question

I appologize for it being a typical Teenager question, but its what I need answered.
So we dated for about three weeks, never did anything serious really. She then broke up with me saying something about a "break" I don't remember too clearly because I was too focused on staying calm.

Thing is I care, I care alot, she is the first person I've ever really trusted...

How should I go about talking to her?

Answer 1

when ur at skool look at her n if yall end up staring 4 a while then she still loves u or talk 2 her on the phone n if yall talk 4 a long time or the way she talks 2 u.

Answer 2

Well first off you are not a typical teenager with a question. You are a guy that has something on his mind other than sex. That's deep. LOL. Guys like you are hard for girls to find. And girls ( being the more emotional one in the relationship) usually don't ask to take a break. I'll be totally blunt. This girls a *****. Find someone new. Someone who can return your feelings. You'll be okay trust me. Three weeks is nothing!

Answer 3

The one thing I've learned about relationships is don't keep things bottled up. Communication is KEY to any relationship. Tell her how you feel. If you don't you'll always wonder why and regret not finding out why. You've got to be prepared for the worst and hope for the best, but at least you'll feel better knowing either way. If she doesn't care for you the way you care for her, then she doesn't deserve you. I know the whole situation seems dramatic at your age....but there are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't waste your time with someone who doesn't want to waste their time on you. Good luck!

Answer 4

Talk to her normally. If you really care about her then tell her, because you still have hope for your relationship. A "break" is only temporary and there's still a chance that you guys get back together.

Answer 5

All you need to do is sit her down calmly before asking her how she is. If you trusted her, you can trust her again and then you can go calmly into the transitional state of asking her if she loves you.

The other way you can do it--if she's the stubborn type--is to ask her friends/siblings/family/anyone else if she likes you. Make sure that you can trust them to not tell her.

Answer 6

I trully believe, everyone goes through a rough phase in a relationship. So, you should definitely go ahead and talk it out with her cos untill and unless you do that, you wont know what went wrong. And unless you know what went wrong you wont be able to resolve anything..

So i would say, go and talk to her before its too late..cos one should not delay at all in matters of heart!

All the best buddy!
Cheers!

Answer 7

If she wanted a break after 3 weeks maybe she is not the right girl for you. If you want to talk to her ask her why she wanted the break. That should answer things for you.

Answer 8

well, you have to first tell her what you feel and stuff. like, try to sit her down or use a phone if you cant do it in person, and tell her your feelings for her. then, you have to ask if she has any feelings for you, and if theres any chance of getting back together. and, try to do this in a private place. but, ultimately, all you can do is tell her how you feel and just ask her if she feels anything for you.

oh, and for the girl above me..... guys are chickens about this stuff because we worry about getting hurt and losing our cool and stuff. guys are acctually fairly deep a lot of the times... sometimes not, but sometimes yes.

Answer 9

i know where u r comin from my ex did the same to me...umm i think u should jus give her some time then tell her tht u and her need to talk and jus get all of yo feelins out there

Answer 10

ask if she wants to hang out, just hang out, not a date and start from there, if she doesn't refuse, then find out what's going on with her life in general and why she needs a break.