We've been dating for over a year, and last night I really wanted to have sex with him. He said he'd be right there..this was at 1am. I fell asleep, and at 4am, he came to bed! He asked if I still wanted to but I was tired and mad that it was now 4am! Is it a bad sign of our relationship that he turned down sex with me because he wanted to work on his computer more? Should I be worried?
2006-06-26 10:14:07 · 9 answers · asked by hawaiianrain69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Geeks need love too, but tell him he can interface with YOUR database or you're gonna have system failure! LOL Failing that, tell him you're running too hot, and you need him to cool you off or you'll lose your memory and his relationship's gonna crash!
Seriously though, u might ask him if his OTHER girlfriend's last name is .jpg....internet porn ruins marriages...
2006-06-26 10:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it really depends on how much he likes computers. Some tech guys can get really get trance like when working on them. If computers aren't his favorite interest, then you might be warranted in your worries. Like you said, 4am is pretty late..so he may just have been tired. Just be mindful. If he turns you down again and its not that late..then maybe you and him should have a talk.
2006-06-26 17:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mav17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be if i were you. the only time my man ever turned down sex with me is cause he needed to know if he could keep his hands off me for a night. i'm sorry but if you're in a realtionship with me and i wanna have sex with you then you're gonna have sex with me or get kicked the ***** out. i'm of the opinion that if the man wants it at 4 in the mornin and you give it to him the least he can do is give it to you when you want
2006-06-26 17:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. He probly just got caught up in whatever he was doing. Computers can often make people become quit zombified you know. I'd just forget about it.. if it happens a lot more often then that's when you should probly start worrying a bit.
2006-06-26 17:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by B Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. If he was really into doing what he was doing at the momment. But I would have dropped what I was doing for my woman. The computer would be there when we were done.
2006-06-26 17:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me if you really wanted it and told him you really wanted it, If he love you like that he would have put everything down to give it to you. I do that with mine. If I want it now give it to me. You are more important then that computer.
2006-06-26 17:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by KJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl or comp, girl or comp, girl or comp, girl or comp......i can go like that for days. it could be very bad cause he's not attracted to u anymore, but also might not mean a thing if u regularly have sex, and this was a one time case
2006-06-26 17:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by amela c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT THE **** KIND OF MAN ARE YOU DATING. He sounds like steven smith the nerd, for the love of GOD himself, dump him
2006-06-26 17:21:16 · answer #8 · answered by boy bah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea.
2006-06-26 17:19:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋