call one of his friends and find out why and why not.
2006-06-26 10:09:52
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answered by snorkelman_37 5
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I'm doing a powerpoint presentation on an article that I found to be a profound relief. I have been racking my brain and living through pain filled days and nights for two months now. I like this guy alot and I want to be with him for a long time and get to the comfort zone of a relationship it has been 6 years or so. Anyhow the presentation is called "Do Men Ignore Women To Test Them?" The answer is yes, they do! There are about 7 reasons why. I've read blog after blog and most of it is so negative! People just tell you to dump him and that added to my pain because nothing good comes fast like that. You have to be patient. But, I have had a incredibly passionate relationship that lasted about 6 years but it took me about a year and a half for him to commit to me and love me. I think I wrecked it because i was messed up and drinking too much and I resented him for some stuff. We were both immature. But what I wouldn't give to have an opportunity to start all over again and do it right this time. Check this link out
http://ezinearticles.com/?Do-Men-Ignore-You-to-Test-You?-Find-Out-the-Main-Reason-Behind-Why-Men-Test-Women-All-the-Time&id=5054474
2013-12-24 21:19:52
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answered by Billie 2
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The question is, do you want to continue doing this? It sounds like it's time to move on. If he wanted a relationship with you, you wouldn't doubt his feelings, 'cause he'd be on your doorstep constantly. If there's more than a day between calls or visits, something is cooling off between you two, and my guess would be he's the one cooling off. He might have found someone else to spend his time with, maybe keeping you as a friend only, or just someone to be there to meet his needs when HE feels like it. You need to talk to him honestly and openly about your feelings. If he doesn't feel the same way you do, and doesn't see the need to change anything, tell him that that's not what you want out of the relationship and that you want something more. It's time to move on. Since you seem to want more than he's willing to give, it's pretty plain what you need to do. It doesn't matter how much you want this thing to continue...if he's not willing to meet you halfway, there's no future with this one. Sorry little one, that's just the way it is. Maybe focus more on your studies and your future. Guys only complicate your emotions when you're still going to school. They take all the energy you'll need to get top grades and a good shot at a great career. There's plenty of time after you get that great job to check out the guys that will, by then, be mature enough to actually handle a full-time relationship. And your emotions will have settled down enough for you to handle a full-time relationship too. Take your time. Enjoy life. It passes oh too quickly. <*)))><
2006-06-26 10:19:16
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answered by Sandylynn 6
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You need to have a talk with him. Ask him where he thinks the relationship is going and if he even wants to be a part of it anymore. You shouldnt have to sit around and wait for a simply phone call from a person your dating. If he does want it to be over then he needs to be man enough to say that. Guys like to play games and the "if i stop calling maybe she'll get the hint" is one of there many games. Dont play into it. Just talk to him. If nothing changes then i would move on.
2006-06-26 10:13:04
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answered by andrea lynn 3
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Well conejita, don't mean to be rude but, are you kidding? Come on, if he hasn't called you in a month well, let me see..... yea! he doesn't want you! Sorry. Don't call him. and if you're going to wait for his call, have a seat you might get tired of standing. You need a man that will be with you 24/7 not someone who doesn't even remember you. Wake up. Chop -Chop!
2006-06-26 10:17:20
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answered by engine119 1
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Some guys just hate the idea of confrontation when it comes to breaking up. If he hasn't called you lately, you might need to cool it with the calls. If he is still interested he will make the move to call you.
2006-06-26 10:12:28
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answered by mom 4
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I think you should talk to him. There is definitely something going on. Ask him what's happening, and it's been a month that you haven't talked, that isn't a relationship, because relationships are about communication. Talk to him, and then make a fair decision. If you still care about him call him, its your decision.
Good luck. And let the best happen.
2006-06-26 10:14:48
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answered by rickylorens 2
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dear u should call to check on him,maybe he has a good excuse like he had a car accident or he is sick or he might found another girlfriend. u have to know something about him and ur relationship.if he was ok when u call ask him why didnt u call if he tried to make fauls excuses just breakup with him cause he is a play man. good luck
2006-06-26 13:59:02
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answered by sasa 4
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Well if he's not calling... then he doesn't WANT to.
Then the question becomes why doesn't he WANT to?
It could be you're no fun to talk to on the phone. Maybe you ask perfect strangers WHY someone does or doesn't do something... and neglect to go to the source...
That would be annoying to me...
You also seem to, in your little paragraph... be a little whiny...
and... demanding. If you want to talk to him... call him... if not, don't sit around wishing for him to call.
Also... when determining the truth... don't listen so much to what a man says... look at what he does...
I'm thinking he's not interested in a relationship anymore, or he would be taking the initiative to call YOU.
Maybe you've offended him... maybe he just doesn't have something to say to you.
anyway... Is it really important who initiates the call? My goodness... he's a guy you're going out with... he's not your husband... even THEN you don't own him... Even then you don't get to dictate his actions.
Sorry... but you asked.
2006-06-26 10:16:21
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answered by Anonymous
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Since you don't live close to him, seems like he may be trying to tell you something. Call and and ask him point blank what is going on. At least you will know where he is at.
2006-06-26 10:12:01
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answered by Blond Logic 4
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If he's not talking to you, there is a very good chance that he's talking to someone else. Call him and ask him straight out, what the future is for the two of you. If his answers are evasive, it's time to cut the strings and move on.
2006-06-26 10:11:36
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answered by wild1handy 3
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